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Posted: 2024-10-08 14:14:44
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On 2024-10-08 14:11:19 majorjohn said:
On 2024-10-08 13:52:47 KICKASS said: Since when has this become a norm to pay a deposit stop this kak I will not pay no-deposit no will i e wallet upfront il pay when we both in the room.if you not happy good for you deal with it.

This industry needs an escrow service. There is an opportunity here.



Not a bad idea. The question is how to implement it?
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Posted: 2024-10-09 05:30:33

1 foot in the grave, and scamming the younguns. Aunty got skill
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Posted: 2024-10-09 06:19:01

Ah ah ah interesting m.o
Old habits die hard
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Posted: 2024-10-09 06:54:38

On 2024-10-09 06:19:01 Tarzann said:
Ah ah ah interesting m.o
Old habits die hard



Dear Tarzann don't "komkommer" smiley face.... yourself. The post from mr kickass was not aimed at me

Have a blessed day
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Posted: 2024-10-09 07:28:22

On 2024-10-08 14:14:44 Arhwen said:
On 2024-10-08 14:11:19 majorjohn said: On 2024-10-08 13:52:47 KICKASS said: Since when has this become a norm to pay a deposit stop this kak I will not pay no-deposit no will i e wallet upfront il pay when we both in the room.if you not happy good for you deal with it.

This industry needs an escrow service. There is an opportunity here.

Not a bad idea. The question is how to implement it?



Interesting idea with merit as it will protect both parties.
BUT if good service and decency by both parties need to be ensured by a third party it's only business and the fantasy will be gone.
I prefer mutual respect and trust.
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Posted: 2024-10-09 07:54:21
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HenryA...


Mutual respect and trust.

Just like you , I prefer that too.

Sadly in this crooked world where energies are spent on working how to scam without getting caught , one starts turning to ways and means , still keeping the "fantasy " alive safeguarding ones "investment" and " services" offered.

I still like the trust factor but, tweaked.

RB.
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Posted: 2024-10-09 08:40:21

So a few months back I also bought a coupon unfortunately I could not make the appointment I must add the money was returned promptly into my account.

My post about paying upfront was not directed at Sharlyn its just something I would never pay deposits.

They say post what is also right so Going forward you know you did right.
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Posted: 2024-10-09 09:17:50
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On 2024-10-09 08:40:21 KICKASS said:
So a few months back I also bought a coupon unfortunately I could not make the appointment I must add the money was returned promptly into my account.

My post about paying upfront was not directed at Sharlyn its just something I would never pay deposits.

They say post what is also right so Going forward you know you did right.



I think the answer to all of this is the answer to the rates debate as well as many others that recur on these purple pages.

If you don't believe in deposits, simply don't pay them. See providers who are happy to accept cash on arrival. If you think R2k is a ridiculous hourly rate, vote with your wallet as they say; see providers who charge less.

When an SP gives you the info pertaining to how she runs her business, and any of it contradicts what you're comfortable with, simply thank her for her time and be on your way. In the same way I'm sure that most SPs will have no problem thanking you for your time and declining your booking if there's anything she won't be comfortable accommodating.

Life really doesn't need to be this crazy complicated.
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Posted: 2024-10-09 09:29:48

On 2024-10-08 14:14:44 Arhwen said:
On 2024-10-08 14:11:19 majorjohn said: On 2024-10-08 13:52:47 KICKASS said: Since when has this become a norm to pay a deposit stop this kak I will not pay no-deposit no will i e wallet upfront il pay when we both in the room.if you not happy good for you deal with it.

This industry needs an escrow service. There is an opportunity here.

Not a bad idea. The question is how to implement it?



Perhaps it could be combined with a cashless payment system seeing as cash is becoming difficult. Using blockchain as the medium of account. You both download an app for the transaction. The big issue would be privacy and the law.
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Posted: 2024-10-09 10:41:21

On 2024-10-08 13:52:47 KICKASS said:
Since when has this become a norm to pay a deposit stop this kak I will not pay no-deposit no will i e wallet upfront il pay when we both in the room.if you not happy good for you deal with it.



I agree! Go to any shop and when paying, you will be asked "cash or card?" The important thing is that you pay for your bread before leaving the shop

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