On 2024-09-12 17:31:43 Hazel Arabia said:
On 2024-09-12 17:26:18
MBD with all due respect, this started in hopes of deterring unnecessarily cruel behaviour. Are we meant to just condone the existence of parasites like R2D4 in our spaces? 10 years on a forum filled with "crack whores" and such - if "he" had the means to book or fuck anyone's brains out, he wouldn't resort to slurs or disrespect.
On 2024-09-12 17:38:31 Hazel Arabia said:
On 2024-09-12 17:33:19 eziguy said: Damn Hazel, take it easy on the kid. He is probably in a cagey mood again lol.
I do apologize and want to point out that acting this way is completely out of character (lol kinda)
I do try to be mindful of how I'm perceived in a space meant for nothing other than advertising. Just amuses me the way a wanker will do everything in their power to get attention from those they can't afford to see.
On 2024-09-12 16:16:00 Teyran said:
On 2024-09-12 13:20:59 Hazel Arabia said: On 2024-09-12 13:02:48 Who tf goes onto a sex site to spew hatred?
This lady www.esa.co.za/escorts/viewEscort.php
/T
On 2024-09-12 05:27:37 Arhwen said:
On 2024-09-12 00:40:22 Littlerascal said: Arhwen, there are service providers on ESA that would take that R1500 for an overnight booking. Not because they are streetwalkers or based in Hillbrow. The economy is in the gutters and some ladies go on for days without a booking. That R1500 goes a long way for some.
Also, point of correction - most don't charge R1500 per hour.
All the ladies I know charge 1500 and up per hour maybe one or two charge a grand per hour but not for the whole night.
Though I must admit on Friday another lady that she booked into a apartment where there was a lady who did a all night for a grand we were gobsmacked ... She dressed up put on make up etc... my foundation alone is close to 500 and some of my shoes are close to a grand and up. All I said was I hope the guy who books her at least pays for her travel separately and tips her because how the fuck does he Expect her to live?
Further more this brings me to the question if that is the ladies allnight rate what is her hourly rate? Then we speak about economy!!! Do they guys offering this and who condone if even give two fucks of how she must live or feed her family if she has one. Though the answer is probably not.
On 2024-09-13 12:35:29 UsedCondom said:
On 2024-09-12 05:27:37 Arhwen said: On 2024-09-12 00:40:22 Littlerascal said: Arhwen, there are service providers on ESA that would take that R1500 for an overnight booking. Not because they are streetwalkers or based in Hillbrow. The economy is in the gutters and some ladies go on for days without a booking. That R1500 goes a long way for some.
Also, point of correction - most don't charge R1500 per hour.
All the ladies I know charge 1500 and up per hour maybe one or two charge a grand per hour but not for the whole night.
Though I must admit on Friday another lady that she booked into a apartment where there was a lady who did a all night for a grand we were gobsmacked ... She dressed up put on make up etc... my foundation alone is close to 500 and some of my shoes are close to a grand and up. All I said was I hope the guy who books her at least pays for her travel separately and tips her because how the fuck does he Expect her to live?
Further more this brings me to the question if that is the ladies allnight rate what is her hourly rate? Then we speak about economy!!! Do they guys offering this and who condone if even give two fucks of how she must live or feed her family if she has one. Though the answer is probably not.
You telling us we have people out here paying you R1500 for an hour? You joking right?
On 2024-09-12 08:22:54 Hazel Arabia said:
On 2024-09-12 07:36:33 Vrik said:
Just financially speaking (ignoring maybe the difficulty of the work environment), i somehow think that earning R1500/night is actually not that bad.
While it would be convenient for a punter to ignore the difficulties of the work environment, ask the PAs & clerks etc if they'd be willing to travel/live/work for R10k per month, if they also had to pay for compulsory (expensive) medical expenses related to the job, or if they walked into the office every day knowing full-well there's a chance they could be sexually / physically assaulted with no HR to turn to.
A clerk/PA doesn't also do the job of the accountant, the cleaner, the marketing team, customer service and more. Their jobs are not all-encompassing and there are laws in place which prevent them from undergoing the stress and trauma ours do.
As a provider your job often comes at the cost of your body, your mental wellbeing, your safety. And when we want to leave the industry or get one of those clerk jobs, we have to answer for gaps in our CVs spanning years. There's no such thing as sick days or maternity leave. I've had to choose working over many a family wedding, and if it came down to it today, would have to choose desperately clicking "available now" over attending a funeral too.
So, minimise it all you'd like. As a man and as a Punter you quite simply will never be able to fathom the sacrifices and non-financial costs we endure. No. R10k per month would not begin to compensate.
On 2024-09-12 10:40:27 Vrik said:
On 2024-09-12 08:22:54 Hazel Arabia said: On 2024-09-12 07:36:33 Vrik said:
Just financially speaking (ignoring maybe the difficulty of the work environment), i somehow think that earning R1500/night is actually not that bad.
While it would be convenient for a punter to ignore the difficulties of the work environment, ask the PAs & clerks etc if they'd be willing to travel/live/work for R10k per month, if they also had to pay for compulsory (expensive) medical expenses related to the job, or if they walked into the office every day knowing full-well there's a chance they could be sexually / physically assaulted with no HR to turn to.
A clerk/PA doesn't also do the job of the accountant, the cleaner, the marketing team, customer service and more. Their jobs are not all-encompassing and there are laws in place which prevent them from undergoing the stress and trauma ours do.
As a provider your job often comes at the cost of your body, your mental wellbeing, your safety. And when we want to leave the industry or get one of those clerk jobs, we have to answer for gaps in our CVs spanning years. There's no such thing as sick days or maternity leave. I've had to choose working over many a family wedding, and if it came down to it today, would have to choose desperately clicking "available now" over attending a funeral too.
So, minimise it all you'd like. As a man and as a Punter you quite simply will never be able to fathom the sacrifices and non-financial costs we endure. No. R10k per month would not begin to compensate.
I actually think we said the same thing. I just framed it badly. What i meant was that being a WG might be much harder than being a PA for instance.
On 2024-09-12 10:40:27 Vrik said:
On 2024-09-12 08:22:54 Hazel Arabia said: On 2024-09-12 07:36:33 Vrik said:
Just financially speaking (ignoring maybe the difficulty of the work environment), i somehow think that earning R1500/night is actually not that bad.
While it would be convenient for a punter to ignore the difficulties of the work environment, ask the PAs & clerks etc if they'd be willing to travel/live/work for R10k per month, if they also had to pay for compulsory (expensive) medical expenses related to the job, or if they walked into the office every day knowing full-well there's a chance they could be sexually / physically assaulted with no HR to turn to.
A clerk/PA doesn't also do the job of the accountant, the cleaner, the marketing team, customer service and more. Their jobs are not all-encompassing and there are laws in place which prevent them from undergoing the stress and trauma ours do.
As a provider your job often comes at the cost of your body, your mental wellbeing, your safety. And when we want to leave the industry or get one of those clerk jobs, we have to answer for gaps in our CVs spanning years. There's no such thing as sick days or maternity leave. I've had to choose working over many a family wedding, and if it came down to it today, would have to choose desperately clicking "available now" over attending a funeral too.
So, minimise it all you'd like. As a man and as a Punter you quite simply will never be able to fathom the sacrifices and non-financial costs we endure. No. R10k per month would not begin to compensate.
I actually think we said the same thing. I just framed it badly. What i meant was that being a WG might be much harder than being a PA for instance.
On 2024-09-12 10:40:27 Vrik said:
On 2024-09-12 08:22:54 Hazel Arabia said: On 2024-09-12 07:36:33 Vrik said:
Just financially speaking (ignoring maybe the difficulty of the work environment), i somehow think that earning R1500/night is actually not that bad.
While it would be convenient for a punter to ignore the difficulties of the work environment, ask the PAs & clerks etc if they'd be willing to travel/live/work for R10k per month, if they also had to pay for compulsory (expensive) medical expenses related to the job, or if they walked into the office every day knowing full-well there's a chance they could be sexually / physically assaulted with no HR to turn to.
A clerk/PA doesn't also do the job of the accountant, the cleaner, the marketing team, customer service and more. Their jobs are not all-encompassing and there are laws in place which prevent them from undergoing the stress and trauma ours do.
As a provider your job often comes at the cost of your body, your mental wellbeing, your safety. And when we want to leave the industry or get one of those clerk jobs, we have to answer for gaps in our CVs spanning years. There's no such thing as sick days or maternity leave. I've had to choose working over many a family wedding, and if it came down to it today, would have to choose desperately clicking "available now" over attending a funeral too.
So, minimise it all you'd like. As a man and as a Punter you quite simply will never be able to fathom the sacrifices and non-financial costs we endure. No. R10k per month would not begin to compensate.
I actually think we said the same thing. I just framed it badly. What i meant was that being a WG might be much harder than being a PA for instance.