Thank you ladies for sharing your experiences :)

If its truely what both parties want, then why not. But is not gonna be easy,because of the affect this industry has on people...both SP and Punters do this in secret..but true love does not ask where and when.

One thing that is evident and sad, guys tend to gravitate towards young or new sps due to their sense of naivety or being unscathed, but even they become jaded through their encounters with those very men over time! We were all there once and very few, if any leave this industry without having their hearts ripped from their chests! Iv'e seen it happen time and again on this very forum. History always repeats itself!

On 2017-09-13 00:24:53 Arizona said:
Please tell her the truth. She might get mad, but none of it is as bad as her not being able to trust you again. At least if you tell her the truth, she'll forgive you in time. But if you were to lie to her, despite having good intentions like you weren't trying to hurt her, still she's going to be hurt because she expects better from you and she expects you to always be honest with her. No matter how painful the truth may be she can handle it! But if you lied to her you're making her believe that she's not worth it. Tell her the truth rather than her hearing the story from other people. There isn't much she asks from you, but keep it real because you're the one she's with. Be straight forward and she'll be fine, but if you're gonna lie to her, you're putting yourself at risk of not being trusted anymore. And all of your truths in the future will be considered lies.

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Arz

Like!!!!

At the best of times I am not relationship material. Even in situations where circumstances were ideal.

I was probably an ideal partner once, but over time, I've become used to my own company and I even find myself to be socially inept in general.

On 2017-09-13 06:21:53 Veronica Franco said:
I was probably an ideal partner once, but over time, I've become used to my own company and I even find myself to be socially inept in general.

Likewise. Or after getting involved with clients who one after the other was after free sex or wanted a side chick but nothing more, for free. And then suddenly after a while you find your number blocked, no explanation. Or you find yourself blocked when he realizes your are a real, live person, not just a blow-jobber

On 2017-09-13 05:40:43 Veronica Franco said:
One thing that is evident and sad, guys tend to gravitate towards young or new sps due to their sense of naivety or being unscathed, but even they become jaded through their encounters with those very men over time! We were all there once and very few, if any leave this industry without having their hearts ripped from their chests! Iv'e seen it happen time and again on this very forum. History always repeats itself!

True story.

@ Nadia the reason you prefer your own company is because you are wise enough to know that you are your own best friend and nobody will have your best interest at heart quite like you do ;)

I'm always amazed when I see this kind of words "Non punter"@Arwhen
Now this is how I see things,All men do cheat and when I say all men I mean at least 99,99999% but then we're divided into 2 categories,some us do cheat but love and respect(in our way) our women so we do our outmost best so that they(nobody) never find out so to avoid hurting them and keep their dignity intact,that's why personally I do insist on the privacy when in a booking,now the rest of us that are in the 2nd category just don't care whether the missus find out or not she is an object to do whatever I say anyway I'm the man...hate this kind.

Now bearing in mind that all men do cheat and if not all but most have paid for sex at least once in their life,which one would you rather have?
I would guess the 1st category and if the 1st,would you prefer your man having a woman that he sees everyday(with all the risks that this involves) or would you rather let your man punt?
@Arwhen your comment on this?

Punting works for me coz after every booking I go back to my woman,love and show her love even more than yesterday and that is each and everytime after a booking,my love just for her just grows.In my twisted way a booking just reminds me of what I have and how much I wouldn't want to loose her.

Now with regard to the industry there are two variables that emerge, fear and trust.

The lady(wg/mg) wouldn't trust the punter coz of where they met,she would almost always fear that he's cheating coz of how they met,which on it own is dumb,we do cheat whether we met in this industry or outside,as said above.

The gentleman(punter) on the otherside would fear that the lady would go to her old tricks if you ever fail to give her the R10k R20k R30k that she needs,how sure are you in the 1st place that you're the one she loves and not the MONEY?all these questions popping in his head that's fear which leads or come from the lack of trust.

Okay now scrap everything I've just said,it's logic but we forget is love is blind love is and will always be irrational therefore it is possible to fall for a wg/mg the relationship could even last longer than a so called "normal relationship"

I've dated a wg for 4 years we're not together anymore but we're good friends...

On 2017-09-12 09:07:59 [deleted] said:
] Love is difficult enough ............... the level of difficulty in such a scenario go's past "P@*% Moeilik" and thats me" Loco" out of here its been lekker !!!

Loco. (The guy with the best legs I've seen). You will probably never see this, but I get what you mean. Friendships and Love is hard enough anywhere else. Here so much more!. But ja...it always comes from two sides (3 or more sides is a orgy...that don't count) and is difficult...but NOT impossible).

This is probably not the right quote for this topic...but..."If you find a path with no obstacles, it probably doesn't lead anywhere"

Frank A Clark.