So I am sitting in a coffee shop and chatting and surfing ESA and I wondered what the correct etiquette would be if you noticed a fellow ESa member on the site on his phone in the car or at a coffeehouse. Would you say something along the lines of " happy searching" or " nice site, I'm also a member" do you just ignore ?? All of this is of course if they are alone only.

Personally I wouldn't mind meeting someone with similar interests that I could talk to

Just ignore and carry on

Well discretion is always appreciated. Punters can always say now. Is not a good time..... Can always say it's a customer previous aqaintence.... Any how I don't mind any of ladies approaching me at any of my offices.... Newscafe or the like.... If not appropriate I will simply say so and offer a drink on me.

Well discretion is always appreciated. Punters can always say 'no, It is not a good time.....' or Can always say to companion be it wife or girlfriend... 'it's a customer' or 'previous aqaintence....' Any how I don't mind any of ladies or punters approaching me at any of my offices.... Newscafe or the like.... If not appropriate I will simply say so.

Ignore and move on would-be my view

I used to run a clothing store and had a customer come in looking for a specific dress and shoe for his "gf". When he showed me the pics of the dress and shoe i knew who the gf was as she had pm'd me the pic to try n get it for her. Chatting a bit i asked if it was for 'xyz' that lives in pta.

his response was 'So whats your nic on esa?'

That's why there are socials....safer! Maybe guy in question is a lone ranger and prefers it that way....rather ignore and rather go to places that have socializing between punters like La femme or HOE. Safer bet and not embarrassing for the other guy!