After reading lil_d's post about his love triangle, link below, it got me thinking...
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Punters are in some ways like covert operators. Leaving our normal "world" to dissapear and escape into the fantasy offered by the beautiful service providers, in the Purple Dimension. Indulging and experiencing sexual and sensual activities we otherwise would not have been able to, well most of us in any case.

We play an undercover version of ourselves, in some cases, the actual real version. The version before we were trapped in the reality we created for ourselves or that was created for us due to pure circumstance.

I have recently learned about the term in the electricity-world called a "floating neutral". In laymen's terms, or rather how I understand this, it is when the earth cable gets charged with power/voltage from the neutral cable. This causes all sorts of shocking experiences in a house.
So the earth cable that is suppose to lead overflow voltage away drom the structure, stays charged causing the electricity to remain powered on all circuits.

Likewise as punters, we enter the purple dimension, thinking we are completely grounded... or earthed. Ie we are here to indulge as mentioned above. That is, until our own earth cables get charged by means of a stunning, beautiful and intelligent lady we meet here. This confuses our perceptions and realities. We are all, SPs and Punters only human.

During all this, we are still the same guys. It is then when we connect with someone from the purple dimension, where all the smoke and mirrors we created fall away.
When someone breaches our defenses.
Now we get confused and start asking ourselves:
Is she really into me?
Am I insane?
Is it only about the money?
How can I know I am not seeing things that aren't there?
Is it all about attention?

Basically we are experiencing a "floating neutral". We are experiencing some kind of love-power/connection, that shouldn't be there, but we feel it, so it has to be true.

Unfortunately there are no black and white answers here for us. Time tells all. Irrespective of anyone's profession, we feel and experience, and we connect. Just as a patient could connect with a doctor for the same reasons.

A wise friend once told me, listen to your gut. Listen for the alarm bells going off...
What if your gut is calm and you don't hear alarm bells...?

Well, as INL said in his post, you have a choice to make...
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Very well put MrShy.
But we remain human (or some of us).

You recognise the warnings, the stories that dont add up. But why do people buy all kinds of scams and loose money? Because you want to believe something (even when deep down there is a little voice telling you things are not what they seem to be). Travelling down that road is not pleasant, the sooner you make a u-turn, the better. Afterall, in the end you can only blame yourself....

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Mr Shy, i got the same advice from a good friend.......

I read this late last night and took the day to digest these pearls of wisdom. As I was reading now again, I was trying to picture myself in this story, and shit, that could be me. In fact, the questions asked were ones that I asked myself numerous times.


Is it only the money ? Because from my shadow you cannot see that I am but a poor man. Spending inordinate amounts of money on bookings just to be able to see her. Which in itself is meeting in a "fucked-up situation". It can never be the basis of building a relationship as the circumstances are not conducive to building a truthful and open and honest relationship.

Is she really into me ? Am I really the ONLY one that is doing with her behind closed doors that we are doing ? Are there some other fuckers also getting so close that you start burning ? She the flame and you the moth. And why oh why do it with me ? I am not an oil painting. Meg was not wearing her glasses. I am not a good kisser. 70% is my last rating from Lindsay, granted a long time ago, but I Never Learn. I don't think that I am a good fuck either, too shy to experiment and an introvert by nature. So I have not, contrary to popular belief, been around the block so many times. Novice like almost. In awe of everything.

Am I insane ? Maybe not insane, but acting mad. Doing things that I would never do under normal circumstances. Organising sleepovers, arranging Phuket trip, arranging whatever just to spend the time.

Is she really into me ? Why ? Why ? Why the fuck me ? And why not taking the next step ? Why keep me hanging ? Really ?

Mr Shy, more questions now than answers.

Thanks for another fucking restless night pondering the questions.

Cheers

Mr INL ! After reading your response i feel a bit more brain fkd than before...... atleast my heart is a bit more safe! My wallet is not safe. Hahahaha..... After some realy good advice from a good friend, my approach to this purple world (and the ladies) is very diffrent than before........
Hopefully this time i learned...... hehe.

Luckily I have realised that this is just a fantasy world we live in .. live in the moment when that gorgeous lady do things to you that you only dreamt of before .. don't worry if she doing it to others guys or not .. enjoy that moment while it last !!!

Happy punting !!!

On 2018-03-12 19:31:00 BOOBS53 said:
Luckily I have realised that this is just a fantasy world we live in .. live in the moment when that gorgeous lady do things to you that you only dreamt of before .. don't worry if she doing it to others guys or not .. enjoy that moment while it last !!!

Happy punting !!!

So well said Boobs53! It's a fantasy world...
Do people connect? I guess some do... the key to happy uncomplicated punting though - enjoy the connection without the drama. Without becoming possessive and obsessive. ALWAYS remember... this is the ladies source of income. As Boobs says - enjoy and appreciate the moment for what it is...

S...xxx

Have to agree, we always think woman are emotional creatures, and yes it might be true but men are the ones that complicate the issue.

Don't blame the ladies because you want a gfe, and when she delivers, that she is stringing you along for the ride. You got what you requested and paid for. That my friends is what we call value for money. A Gfe soooooooo good even you have fallen for it.

Ladies keep up the great work, let us punters worry about our own problems. I am an easy target for this, as I have a heart like a taxi. There is always place for one more to love.

I am slowly learning how to protect myself from falling " in love" and to become a cold hearted fucking machine, only worried about sowing my wild oats.

Syren (aka Simply irresistible)

I agree with you and BOOBS completely ;-)