Im angry at myself for letting this guy sweet talk me into a deal for an over night booking which I never do... but since he promised me that I don't have to offer him the GFE... only need my company for a house warming party and would be to late to drive me home afterwards I thought it might work... I couldn't resist the offer he made to me... he sounds so damn convincing and nice. After he called me, he gave me his what's app number and ask me to add him since he can't reach me on there...
Well it turned out that I already blocked that number but stupid me thought maybe I blocked him for a stupid reason... a cock picture or arrogance, so I unblocked him and start chatting on what's app, while he told me his on his way from Jhb to fetch me...
He asked me to dress very sexy and to pack a pair of lingerie and bikini for the jacuzzi. Even asked me what I would like to drink...

He never pitched... did not answered my calls... his reading my what's app messages but doesn't respond... I totally blame myself for this one... but his nice voice and good manners convinced me to believe him... If something sounds to be good to be true, it is to good to be true...What the hel happened to my 6th sense!!!

I am going to make a list of numbers and add the reasons why I am blocking a guy. I will never fall for a sweet talker again...

I also got a call last night from a friend on here (WG) who had this amazing booking that this guy promised her. She spend R600 to get there and afterwards he just chased her out by swearing at her and telling her to leave before he gets mad. Left her stranded there without a cent. If it was here in Joburg would have gone there and hit his head in.

Can you not ask for 25%-50% upfront?

Fredster... It's so nice to know there are still people like you...

Tegwane... I know it's the right thing to do... but in a case like this, everything happened so fast... but I can't tell you how unbelievable good this guy was... a deposit was the last thing I thought of... but I can only blame myself. I just wish I knew why they do this and if they sleep at night? This was a hard lesson learned... When you read the ladies forum you can't believe what guys are doing to the ladies... some very sad stories... and I always thought I am lucky not to be surrounded by such assholes but no one is free from getting f..... over... it's such a pity that these things happen

I had been whatsapping a lady for some time to make a booking three days before the booking same scenario played out

Works both ways

Omg what possess people (guys &wg s) to do something like that? Sure they must be deranged.

Sowwy you had to go through that. Don't feel to bad. You not the only one that goes through that shit. Happens to other ladies as well guys too.

Just shirk it off as a bad deal and remember that there are better people out there. Whom you rather spend time with.

Thats true Mike... I do believe in KARMA and it will do it's job eventually... This world is cruel enough... we don't need more shit in our lives... none of us do...

On 2018-05-06 10:44:51 Ms Paige said:
Fredster... It's so nice to know there are still people like you...

Tegwane... I know it's the right thing to do... but in a case like this, everything happened so fast... but I can't tell you how unbelievable good this guy was... a deposit was the last thing I thought of... but I can only blame myself. I just wish I knew why they do this and if they sleep at night? This was a hard lesson learned... When you read the ladies forum you can't believe what guys are doing to the ladies... some very sad stories... and I always thought I am lucky not to be surrounded by such assholes but no one is free from getting f..... over... it's such a pity that these things happen

Take a life tip, treat everyone as if they are an arsehole, as one, you will never be disappointed, and two they can only go up in your estimation

hahahahaha.... Thanks for the good advice... and the smile on my face... LOL

I have often thought that ESA should have a way for ladies to review the punters too... I don't know what info you get on your ESA account when you sign in as a WG, but you should have some system where you can leave comments linked to an alias and/or phone number.

The way some guys treat ladies are totally unacceptable... And yes it goes the other way too - except we can write a review and warn others, who is warning the ladies?