Very very interesting, but my view is that too many of the ladies appear too hot and it's unlikely that it's legit. Not too many average build ladies it seems. I'd like to be proved totally wrong so if anyone knows for sure, please share the info dudes...
C'mon guys....why would such spunky chicks be on a site like this? They could pick up an NSA in the wink of an eye. As usual, I'll guess that only the guys pay for membership and get nothing out of it....
I've been a member of NSA in the past. It is not an outright scam along the lines of AdultFriendFinder, but their business model is not made crystal clear up front:
Firstly the membership fees:
- the R200/month silver membership isn't going to get you much at all. Not eligible to be invited to parties, and very limited "intros" (more about that later).
- R400/3 month Gold membership is slightly better, there is the chance of being invited to their parties and less restrictions on "intros"
What they don't tell you before you have signed up for at least the silver is that all the fun happens for VIP members, which is an addition R1500 for six months. VIPs get access to unlimited "intros" and can see a VIP members profile page where people can post pics which do not have the faces obscured.
So, how is it supposed to work?
After paying you get your password and can log in. There are many profiles you can see but you cannot contact anyone directly. You need to go via the sites operators and provide them with a list of people you are interested in, and they will reach out on your behalf and let those people know you have expressed an interest and ask if it is mutual. There is a limitation on how many of these intros you can request during a period that is determined by your membership level. Also, you can only make one attempt to contact someone.
Assuming there is mutual interest then they exchange contact details between the parties and let them work the rest out themselves.
But how does it really work in practice?
I joined VIP and requested loads of intros, none of which came to anything. I had one lady express an interest in me and we eventually hooked up and started a FWB-type relationship. That was about 2 months after joining. Our combined experience of the site was that the operators were exercising extreme editorial control over who met whom. She was contact by them for a review of me after we had met, and after giving a positive response I got another few referrals, but never from anyone I had requested to meet.
It wasn't a total waste of time, but I think the site was more geared towards women wanting to meet men. It is very safe for them and the intermediary role played by the operators means they are not bombarded with requests from every guy.
As a guy, the site could work if you played the game for a while and got on the approved list. But it isn't a viable get laid quick scheme. For your money, you are more likely to find a quick fix on ESA.
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