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Just wondering
Posted: 2019-09-26 07:26:03
Edited: 2019-09-26 07:31:25
Edited: 2019-09-26 07:31:25
I have noticed loads of guys asking ladies to pm them if they offer xyz, are in Abc, etc. However most of these guys never or seldom post reviews.
I get that I am not everybody's cuppa. But I often reply via pm to guys who are not specific abt the type of lady or if I fit the bill. Guess what? Not even a reply saying Thanks for the info or Thanks but no thanks.
I have cross referenced with a couple of ladies who are absolutely stunning re a member always asking for recommendations and they have pm'd him. After loads of chitchatting, no booking.followed.... Also zero reviews.
Just an observation, not really of any life-altering importance, just throwing this out there.
Perhaps a sign that the guy is a time-waster?
I get that I am not everybody's cuppa. But I often reply via pm to guys who are not specific abt the type of lady or if I fit the bill. Guess what? Not even a reply saying Thanks for the info or Thanks but no thanks.
I have cross referenced with a couple of ladies who are absolutely stunning re a member always asking for recommendations and they have pm'd him. After loads of chitchatting, no booking.followed.... Also zero reviews.
Just an observation, not really of any life-altering importance, just throwing this out there.
Perhaps a sign that the guy is a time-waster?
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Re: Just wondering
Posted: 2019-09-26 07:34:35
Spot-on Nadia...
Many of the "PM Me Crowd"...do not realize that the lady has a limit of PM's per day, and sometimes the genuine enquiries go unanswered!
Many of the "PM Me Crowd"...do not realize that the lady has a limit of PM's per day, and sometimes the genuine enquiries go unanswered!
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Re: Just wondering
Posted: 2019-09-26 07:37:21
They probably just get kicks for a lady responding, make them feel important...courtesy is key in this industry
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Re: Just wondering
Posted: 2019-09-26 07:52:57
I agree I did ask the punters once a question as to "why they never say thank you" after you have given them info,usually happens with the "p.m group".FYI it's rude to keep quiet after the effort a lady has put in to respond.
Wish ESA can group messages,so I know who not to respond to.
Wish ESA can group messages,so I know who not to respond to.
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Re: Just wondering
Posted: 2019-09-26 08:13:59
This is my thinking.
On 2019-09-26 07:37:21 Davistarr said:
They probably just get kicks for a lady responding, make them feel important...courtesy is key in this industry
This is my thinking.
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Re: Just wondering
Posted: 2019-09-26 08:19:34
If one responds, it actually ends up in a conversation thus getting to know the lady a bit more... Dicks pics excluded in this conversation goes without saying
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Re: Just wondering
Posted: 2019-09-26 08:21:01
Edited: 2019-09-26 08:22:32
I have decided that I will first see who the person reviewed before answering. If he asks for pms here and has no reviews, he is more than likely a wanker.
Even when ladies reply on the thread, they ignore some and reply to others. Just a simple thank you will do if the respondent isnt your taste. But even better still, state what type of lady and which specific area. More specifics will yield better results than 'I need a sexy lady for a mind blowing time in Joburg area'.
Edited: 2019-09-26 08:22:32
On 2019-09-26 07:52:57 Caressa said:
I agree I did ask the punters once a question as to "why they never say thank you" after you have given them info,usually happens with the "p.m group".FYI it's rude to keep quiet after the effort a lady has put in to respond.
Wish ESA can group messages,so I know who not to respond to.
I have decided that I will first see who the person reviewed before answering. If he asks for pms here and has no reviews, he is more than likely a wanker.
Even when ladies reply on the thread, they ignore some and reply to others. Just a simple thank you will do if the respondent isnt your taste. But even better still, state what type of lady and which specific area. More specifics will yield better results than 'I need a sexy lady for a mind blowing time in Joburg area'.
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