To forum users please note that this notice does not refer to any of the ladies who regularly contribute to this forum.

It has come to my attention that ladies have been contacting clients to make unsolicited requests for further business. Ladies (you know who you are) even though this is a unregulated industry this type of behavior shows a huge lack of class and is completely unacceptable.

When seeing a client he pays you a set fee as agreed for your time, an unspoken agreement exists that he is also playing for your complete discretion. You do not contact your client for any reason after the fact unless initiated by the client. You do not disclose details about your encounter to 3rd parties (including the ladies you work with, loose lips sink ships and all that) for any reason whatsoever.

Then on to contacting Escort South Africa/Adultinc staff members, we to receive a huge amount of call me’s and reverse charge calls. Ladies we will no longer be replying to these. The advert that does the worst on ESA makes R5000 per month for the lady in question; a R5000 return on a R350 investment is good in anyone’s books. On the upper end of the scale we have ladies who generate in excess of R50 000 from a R350 advert. Not being able to afford the call is certainly not a valid excuse. If you need to contact us, spend the money on the call, and write it up as a cost of doing business.

Kind Regards
Eddie
ESA SUPPORT

Ed now you're sounding like the hooker police.

By all means, moan at your advertisers about the reverse charge calls, but not the other stuff. Or at least, not in that tone.

The 'It has come to my attention...' is a bit headmasterish, as in 'It has come to my attention that boys are masturbating in the toilets'. The 'It has come to my attention...' thing is only really appropriate when you have some authority over the addressee, which you don't.

Personally, I have had dozens of wonderful encounters with girls who send me reminders, along the lines of 'How about a nice double?' by sms. I think 'Shit, haven't seen (insert name here) for ages... Good idea babe!', and toddle round, Mr Happy at the ready.

Marketing wisdom has it that it takes five times the effort to gain a new customer as it does to keep an existing one. In that case, it makes perfect sense for a girl to contact a punter she knows. Even more so, given the risks involved in an encounter with an unknown punter, compared to a known, trusted one.

I disagree with you PunterDelux. For a married man it can be disastrous if he receives a sms like that.

I agree with you totally Eddie.

Keep up the good work.

Personally, I think that as long as the message is phrased ambigiously, it is OK.

Instead of 'How about a double?', the message is 'How about a game of doubles?' the married man can pass it off as a friend asking for a game of tennis/golf/bowls etc.

'How would you like to fuck me stukkend', 'I am horny, I know you are. Lets fix that right now' and 'My pussy is aching for your special touch' are, of course, not on. But 'I was thinking that you would be perfect for a position on my team. The position of hooker has already been taken, but you could be a prop or a number 8. Want to join?' or 'I need your help with my game. I am a hooker of note and I seem to recall you hit it dead solid perfect. Can you help sort me out?' and 'I recall you told me about the days you bowled a maiden over. I also need that kind of help. Care to share some of your old tricks with me and my friend?' seem innocent enough, but if you know they are from a WG, come with a whole new meaning.

Of course, being single myself, I prefer the 'I want you to fuck me stukkend' messages... but that is just me ;-)

Your Gonzo Reporter

I think in fairness to Ed.... the key word here is ''unsolicited''.....!

As I have posted on certain threads before... the girls are normal folk...

In my business, in my industry, I have made friends with certain of my clients and certainly I do call or sms them from time to time to catch up, greet, find out how they are, etc....

I don't believe this is seen as 'soliciting' or 'touting' for work..!! ... just good freindly manners... ;p and yes all part of the marketing to retaining a client for future work...;)

If one gets to know a girl on a regular basis... is it not reasonable that she be allowed to do the same with you in a friendly manner....?

I agree.... it must be done in absolute discretion... and in my experience this has always been the case with those girls I have got to know well....

I do however agree with Ed and do NOT condone the ''Soliciting'' type of sms's and phone calls... where for instance after one visit, a girl sms's you a few days later offering a ''FH special on for this weekend'', ''When you cumming to fuck me again'', or similar shit.... especially the ones that are broadcast generally to her Contacts List...!!!!

Of course... during the exchange of sms's the language between the two of you may well get down to the: ''I am drippingly horny... I want you to cum and Fuck me Stukkend... NOW !''... level but that is all in the good spirit of fun of this business now isn't it, hey...???....!!!

;);)

Any punter who lets his missus anywhere near his Punt-A-Phone deserves what he gets :)

But what I was getting at was not the right or wrong of such contact, but Ed's heavy-handed approach. Of course, he's entitled to his opinion- we all are. But he's not in control of the industry; he provides a service to that industry, nothing more, nothing less. Ed isn't the ombudsman, policeman, or whatever, and it is not down to him to dictate to girls how they should behave. A simple change in his wording would do it: 'You SHOULD not...', rather than 'You DO not...'

The 'You do not...' would only be appropriate if he ran a house and had girls working for him (almost said 'under' him...), over whom he had the right to dictate rules.

punterdelux are you retarded.relax my man and get off that high horse.we just having a debate here.eddie makes a very valid point what are you talking about heavy handed.a lady called my phone at 10pm asking for a loan after i saw her once.if my wife answered i would have been in huge shit.i see the a wg as a service for money situation only.i never make a friend of a wg because that’s how the trouble starts.each to his own,everyone must do what is best or themselves.live and let live.

Very funny PunterSThompson, very funny.

Clitsntits. That is an excellent post. Perhaps one can also make sure that the entry for the wg on your phone shows a business name, or as PSThompson suggests, a name from a fellow team member on the cricket team.

Point taken PunterDL.

Have a great week of punting guys.

Chris, if your wife had been able to answer the phone that you use for punting, you would have deserved to be in big shit. Use a different sim for punting, or keep your phone with you on a quiet setting.

If as you say, we are having a debate, then at least allow me to have my opinion. Don't slag me off, just because you almost got caught out.

I never for a minute suggested making friends with a wg- you're quite right it's a transaction. I didn't make friends with the guy at the VW place when they serviced my car, yet they phoned to see if they could do any other service for me. I just got an sms from the optician, reminding me that my eyes are due for a test. A wg reminding a punter he's overdue for a service is the same thing, in my mind.

If a wg phoned to ask me for a loan? Well first I'd tell her to fuck off, then I'd post here with her name and details. That's a different thing altogether, from doing a bit of telemarketing!

By the way, were you absent from school the day they did capital letters?

Ed has advised the girls of what is the correct professional approach to this business, most of us pay them to leave not become a cell phone spam irritation.

Lots of the chicks ask me for my email and if I liked them I give them my free email account it can be a fun back and forth chat.

I use a punter card and as I have stated many times all should do this. I put it away in my wallet and when its time for the mighty sword to slay a wild dragon, I insert my trusty SIM card to make the calls. When I do, yes there are several messages from previous encounters but luckily there is a feature on all cell phone in the massage area called 'Delete All'. I don't read them I just delete them.

It is only polite for the girls to ask you if it is ok to SMS you. Eds correct in his statement! But at the end of the day use a different SIM card. It does not even leave a big round mark on the outside of your wallet like a Condom. If your old lady goes through your wallet, 'get a new old lady' man, thats way over the top. :-)