SuperOrdinary
Gold member : Joined 29 October 2021

Face : 4/5
Body : 4/5
Personality : 1/5
Personal cleanliness : 3/5
Payment : 1/5

I hate to be petty, I think I've been drama free enough.

Last week Thursday a punter I've been talking to since my first day finally booked me, we've both been caught up.

He suggested we meet at a club in sandton since him and his colleagues were turning up there after their year end function.

When I got there, he was very excited to meet me and the room suggested that "who's this" look from his colleagues, not in a negative way but in a nosy way. I told him to play it cool and say I was a girl he knew (he's a bit of a nerdy guy) and I think I represented myself so well that the colleagues were questioning his game. I acted like his gf, he's actually a really cool guy at first glance. Little did I know.

The first bad thing that happened that night is that he was extremely drunk and blurted out to one of his colleagues that I was an escort - I was so put off because I also have a personal life and if I wanted to be introduced as one, I would have my face on here. He apologised and said that was the only person he told and he didn't think it was a bad thing. I moved on since he seemed genuinely remorseful.

Second thing, he told me that a punter I'm fairly close with, works with him and started raving about how they're friends and have discussed me numerous times and that the guy is "in love" with me. I should've know he had something up his sleeve, because the punter he's referring to generally doesn't put his business out there and the fact that he called him by his punting name would suggest that he doesn't know him at all.

He started mentioning another working girl I don't know personally and talking about how they're best of friends and sharing some of her personal info. He's very charismatic, a big charmer that one, because I also started to open up about who I am and my personal life.

After the club, we got to my place and when he was meant to leave, he owed me R4000 and he opened his banking app to make the transfer, he was so adamant that he didn't want me to see his personal info so he couldn't sent the POP but sent me a lousy screenshot and I gave him the benefit of the doubt because I knew where he worked and he does have a punting profile, he's also a bloody good actor.

The same morning, a few hours later he stirred up up some untruthful drama between me, the other girl and two other punters bare in mind that I don't know other ladies, I've always worked by myself and so it was a big deal to hear other ladies talking about me and discussing my personal life. The girl went on the pause her ad and block the other punters who had nothing to do with any of this or even knew him like he claimed to know and just saw the common punters to rate both the lady and I - we're all still wondering what his intentions really were. Very weird guy.

It's officially been a week and I haven't received my money, he's been ignoring my messages and calls, he said there was an error on the payment and keeps promising to pay on that day.

Mr SuperOrdinary ngicela imali yami webhuti, there's a serious hennesy shortage and I need to stock up singaka ngeni kahle kule nyanga.

Will I return? Absolutely not.

A lot of codes seem to have been broken here. Id personally not meet someone around their friends, especially if its the first meeting. And after condom use, rule number 2...always take your money upfront.

That sounds pretty messed up bro. Yo gotta pay what you owe

Thanks for the advice miss Ella. Yes I admit I should've taken my money upfront, I guess I just gave him too much credit and didn't want him opening his banking app in front of people, I just trusted him

Secondly, I don't think meeting someone in public for the first time is a bad thing, that's the literal meaning of an escort.