On 2023-01-16 22:41:54 Littlerascal said:
I've tried to let ladies take the lead for a change, but I always end up taking the lead because the rhythm isn't right.
On 2023-01-17 08:44:49 JackParrow69 said:
Speaking for myself here but I have an explanation for this.
Outside of the purple world, what you're looking for is exactly what happens but as you said it's mutual, it's give and take. No money exchanges hands but I get to fuck you as you get to fuck me. I rock your world and you rock mine. I put in the effort to make it good for you so you wanna see me again and you do the same and I am most likely going to be leading the whole thing, he'll I prefer to be dominant and get turned off if I'm not in control outside the purple.
Then comes the days where I don't want to put in the effort. I just wanna lay back and relax as you say. I want to be treated without having to put in the work and that ain't gonna fly with a random chick outside that is giving it up, not for money but to be pleasured too. That's when I decide to pay for it so instead of paying in effort, I pay in cash to be pleasured where it's all about me and my pleasure, I mean why else do I want to pay for it when it can be gotten for free in the financial sense but a fair physical exchange in the actual sense?
That is the reason I punt, to lay back and be treated and have the WG take the lead and cater to me. If I'm gonna do the work for the mutual satisfaction, then I should also be getting paid for it or well it cancels off, after all a typical session with me outside is a couple hours of fucking and pleasuring the women but with a wg it's 15-20 minutes of action. Who's fits the bill for all the extra time, attention, and effort? I think that it comes down to one's the service provider and one's the receiver of said service.
As I said, speaking for myself who has other options and this just fills a small gap. For guys that have to get 100% of their action here, I sure they have things to prove to themselves by going all out on a wg to show what a good lover he is and I hope you get lot's of them and I'm sure there's a significant portion of guys who have no clue what to do to so they just have to let you take the lead and hope for the best while waiting for you to make them cum which is why they need to punt.
Punting isn't a lover situation of mutual satisfaction but a one way transaction in exchange for a service. Hope they makes sense in understanding why it is that way for some.
JP69