Posted: 2015-08-31 15:04:19
Edited: 2015-08-31 15:06:40
Hi there,
I can't comment on Singapore. Keep in mind it's a 1st world country.
You are in for a treat in Indonesia... 3rd world country, much the same as SA. Few rich people, exploding middle class.
If you are in the mood for company go to any of the 4/5 star hotels in Jakarta. All of them have Bars/Clubs. Its literally as easy as talking to any girl in the club. They are not wg's. So your only expense should be a drink or two.
If you Afr is good you will even pick up the language. In Indo/Malaysia white foreigners are called "Bule". Many 20-something girls are very open to sleeping with "Bule".
Your most important pickup like would be "'want to be naughty with me?". The word for naughty is "nakal". But buy her a drink first. Try to say a few words in Bahasa (Indo/Malay language). It's almost easier than buying bread.
If you want to go "pro", its also easy, but in my opinion you will be wasting your money to pay for sex.
Besides the Hotels, there are a few dance clubs that attract more locals. If you can't pick up a girl there you are either very lazy or very shy.
Another option is simply going to the mall over lunch, any large mall. Chat to girls in the food courts, get their numbers. Yes numbers, because there will be many friendly girls, going for lunch. Call them and invite them over for a drink. If you stay in a hotel or serviced apartment, they will be breaking down your door to sleep over.
Let us know how it goes!
PM me if you need more info. I practically live in Jakarta.