After much consideration and many questions from my regular punters for my absent profile directly after a new photo shoot I have decided to take to the forum to shed light on the situation.

On Friday morning I got a call from a family member about my listing on ESA...yes a spineless coward who cannot face competition or the simple fact that its not all is end all about them decided to use personal information to maliciously go after all that I hold close to my heart.This person contacted my family with my listing name, contact number and physical address (yes they even sent goons to intimidate us before - which I let slide) so as can be expected there was a lot of drama that took place between my family and I hence the reason for asking admin to take down my add as I was in no state to see anyone.

I may have lost all that I care about maybe temporarily or forever which is what this person wanted. Funniest thing is that they didn't think the trail will lead right back to them....for this I would like to thank an amazing friend who pulled no stops in tracing the identity of this person - always good to know the right people. As much as I would see breath given to the embers of revenge burning within me the best revenge would be for them to have a front row seat and watch me succeed!

If anyone receives or has received messages claiming to be me or from ANONYMOUS about me please use your discretion is assessing truth from fiction or someone just out to tarnish someone else.

Once again apologies for the inconvenience and also many thanks to all that reached out and supported me when it felt the hour was at its darkest xx

Wow sounds like a terrible ordeal lady Ray
But like the Phoenix I wish you the best so you may rise from the ashes and stand proud in your achievements

Well done lady ray. U very gracious in not naming and shaming individual involved rather using that energy to succeed. And let this be a lesson to bitter partners relationship or workwise,ex employees,friends no matter how much u want revenge on person let bygones be bygones and concentrate on your own. success not destoying someone or somepeoples life who knows just think u cud be responsible for someones death. Would u wanna be responsible for that and would u be able to live with that.

Sad to hear that there are people that could turn that far and malicious! Thigh I have not met you yet, I am actually drawn to entering your paradise, for the lady that you sound like you are... More so for being such a stunning beauty! Hmmm... Road trip soon!