Hi guys

So I have a girlfriend who I love to bits. But something about Wigs attracts me so much. I feel like they do what they do with pride, they take it very seriously. I feel horrible for being unfaithful, but I honestly feel like it keeps me excited. My lady 3 encounters with Wigs I struggled to cum, but their sheer presence gives me comfort. WGs are some of the nicest and understanding people I've ever met.

...when walls are down and one need not pretend to be anything more than one is, is easier in the company of a kind stranger that has been labeled a prostitute, taboo and the bane of civil society, fully well knowing her worth is more than many who hide behind the facade of "social decency" .

She has nothing to lose but be the decent kind person she is.


RB.

So true RB ... when the masks are off and we can just be who we are, the freedom, the comfort, the pleasure (within our established boundaries of course)

And then we go back to our lives, our partners, and as the OP says, the guilt consumes you ...

Oh my J_J...

Guilt. (Humour me pls....)

Is it possible to recognize the service provided by a prostitute no different from your urologist or geanocologist? ...psychologist?

A specialized space where intimacy that one is even shy to share with the one where the vow
"Till death do us part , for better or worse..." one cannot enjoy with?


...or is one not able to think further than the porn one watches, defining this "safe zone" as nothing more than porn?...making one feel guilty for that is the go to in ones headspace? Kinks and fetishes being defined as deviant behaviour?

The label prostitute derogatory because society be scared and fears the true essence of sensual / sexual intimacy making it a dirty thing and it's sole / soul purpose to procreate?...should one enjoy then, hells doors to open and swallow one for eternity?

The power of sex maybe ain't as powerful as society gives credit but, rather...weakness of character may turn a gentleman into a homewrecker leading to alienation and divorce and she , the reason for that, doesn't have to be a prostitute to turn him away from his home.

And thus...even though there be no university degrees or diplomas...THIS space is no less specialized and professional in its own right and therefore, just like any other service delivered, rightfully charged .

Neither condoning nor judging and never have I felt guilty in giving my all to the Gentleman that walks through my door for my purpose is not to steal him from his wife or partner but, rather, be his getaway from whatever he needs relief from.

...and when he leaves the hope is that he feels lighter and more in love with his life and not walks away feeling ridden with guilt.


RB.


Addendum...above a tiny bit of so much more that can be added, argued and even proven to be wrong?

Its because we do everything your wife/ girlfriend arent willing to do or is to shy to try.

Its because we do everything your wife/ girlfriend arent willing to do or is to shy to try.

Maybe just me. And yes, it may sound terrible.
But for me there is something quite sexy about paying for sex. I am not proud of it, but it is sexy nonetheless.
:-)

RB I've always walked away from you recharged, never guilt of what we've done.

The guilty not so much about what we do with sex workers, but the lies we tell our wife's. We did make commitments to them, one to be faithful. Then we go and share those spaces with others. Yes, as Michelle says, it's because we not getting it at home, so maybe a rationale. But can't easily rationalise guilt away.

Thank you J_J

But it has been far too long since our last adventure...or...have we adventured yet?



As to guilt....born with that default to engage in all sorts of forbidden guilty pleasures

RB

Sometimes they more normal and predictable than us. And we can be ourselves without fear of being judged. Had a regular ex wg who became a friend over the years and did she save me many a time from really silly things and also sometimes we even got into good trouble together. Hopefully between one of the other regulars she can do same for me again. I kinda have a habit of self destructive in silly ways every now and than. Last time I got scolding from her and I've not self destructed in around 2 months.