I have recently relocated to South Africa (previously resided in Dubai and Melbourne and originally from the USA).

What has peeked my curiousity is how women percieve a man in South Africa by his outward material appearance. I would like to understand if it is the same in the Escort world as well.

In Dubai, this was extremely evident accross all levels of society. Not so much in Aus and the USA.

I would like to understand from the Escorts perspective, do you treat a man differently if he arrives in an expensive car wearing designer brands and a luxury watch?

I have definitely experienced this in the non escort world here in South Africa, the younger girls approach you based on your car and watch, and I entertain it should they be attractive but in all honesty, it is a more expensive endeavour than paying a service provider on this site.

Which leads me to yesterday, I am traveling and am in Cape Town. I made a booking to which I drove my hire car. I arrived freshly showered and groomed as always. My attire was a regualr tracksuit with a wind breaker. No watch. No wallet. My work phone(nothing fancy, normal Android). I was met by the lady in question with all the excitement of watching paint dry and this set the mood for the remainder of the appointmemt. This lady is highly rated and charges above average pricing and keep in mind, my mate who reffered me to her, has had amazing experinence with said lady.

When we debriefed last night, he was shocked, we both agree that I am the more physically fit and objectively more attractive gent. Was this due to my attire and car(she saw the keys in my hand on arrival)? He drives his sports car and is generally more formally attired when visiting her.

For clarity, most of the appointments I have had have been in Gauteng and I have arrived in my vehicle dressed appropriately for the office wearing my usual time piece and with my personal phone (all of which would be considered high end).

Would like to hear the thoughts and opinions on this matter.

Thank you
G

I don't think that's necessarily the case. Not to make excuses for the SP in question but i had a pretty uninteresting booking yesterday as well, and only after reading this did i go back mentally to note what he was wearing or if his keys were out. (Generally this isn't something I pay any attention to)

Thing is, sometimes irrespective of rate or reviews, bookings happen and they're nothing to write home about. While this is upsetting (because wasted time, wasted money) it can happen for many reasons.

I think communication would solve the issue and give you a better idea as to what happened, and if she is as good as the reviews suggest, perhaps she can better explain and offer to make it up to you somehow.

You could arrive on roller skates and that would impress me more than a fancy car.

Weathy gentlman, always play in down. And do not walk around all flash. Because they are wise.

Maybe young guys wish to be all flash and attract the types that he is wanting to attract so he will get what his put out there.
If he has to do this to get what he wants Why not, his choice.

I never have and Never will judge a guy buy his car, watch or clothing....his intelligence YES big time, very attractive to me.

The super wealthy clients I know, drive small cars ( flashy cars are in the garage) and very basic clothing.

Some tear their clothing so as not to attract the wrong types.

I treat a guy the way I wish to be treated, my rate is my rate and he can see me for the hours he chooses to book, I intend to enjoy every minute with him and hope he does with me.

There are many younglings that are looking for that sugar daddy or knight in shining armour not only in this space but, in life in general.

Their body is their asset and they use it to hook those men that wish to be hooked.

There are many men that like to have a trophy on their arm and like the buying power of their money...and enjoy " hooking" the youngling .

This space is just a microcosm of much that can be found all over.

As to good or bad service depending on the car you drive, the clothes you wear or accessories, a professional SP cares not for the "flash" and when sessions are that bit extra ordinary, it simply means the connection was that much more out of the ordinary.

That is why I always say reviews and recommedations are like double edged knives....always good to read them and should give confidence BUT, are no guarantee that the same level of satisfaction may happen.

RB.

I normally arrive in one of the work's clapped out Mahindra bakkies and I honestly can't say that I have experienced any difference from when I use my own vehicle.
Where I have noticed a difference was when arriving in my work attire which normally is short pants, shirt and safety boots.
It came to a stage where a warn the girls before hand to the way I am dressed.
Usually the lady offers a shower and that sorts out the issue.
Only Sam in Strand (ad active) once said to me not to worry how I am dressed - it is her job to dress up for me.

If I could arrive nude, I would ...

On 2024-06-03 16:25:02 SleepyJoe94 said:
I have recently relocated to South Africa (previously resided in Dubai and Melbourne and originally from the USA).

What has peeked my curiousity is how women percieve a man in South Africa by his outward material appearance. I would like to understand if it is the same in the Escort world as well.

In Dubai, this was extremely evident accross all levels of society. Not so much in Aus and the USA.

I would like to understand from the Escorts perspective, do you treat a man differently if he arrives in an expensive car wearing designer brands and a luxury watch?

I have definitely experienced this in the non escort world here in South Africa, the younger girls approach you based on your car and watch, and I entertain it should they be attractive but in all honesty, it is a more expensive endeavour than paying a service provider on this site.

Which leads me to yesterday, I am traveling and am in Cape Town. I made a booking to which I drove my hire car. I arrived freshly showered and groomed as always. My attire was a regualr tracksuit with a wind breaker. No watch. No wallet. My work phone(nothing fancy, normal Android). I was met by the lady in question with all the excitement of watching paint dry and this set the mood for the remainder of the appointmemt. This lady is highly rated and charges above average pricing and keep in mind, my mate who reffered me to her, has had amazing experinence with said lady.

When we debriefed last night, he was shocked, we both agree that I am the more physically fit and objectively more attractive gent. Was this due to my attire and car(she saw the keys in my hand on arrival)? He drives his sports car and is generally more formally attired when visiting her.

For clarity, most of the appointments I have had have been in Gauteng and I have arrived in my vehicle dressed appropriately for the office wearing my usual time piece and with my personal phone (all of which would be considered high end).

Would like to hear the thoughts and opinions on this matter.

Thank you
G

I received visits from a well-known politicians, and I had no idea who they were until a Collique told me:-). I had several encounters with a vice president of an airline (I won't say his name) and I had no idea I could fly for free until a Collique said to me, "Do you know you can fly for free?" and I was like, ohw :-). The list goes on and on. I suppose this is how Dum I am. But now, I'd say I enjoy it that way. I've smelled the terrible attitude of individuals who treat people based on their possessions or lack thereof. Once you've found your true self and understood who you are, you would never wave, and you will treat people according to how you would want to be treated and it will come effortlessly.

Sidenote arriving in expensive material is how most rookies on this site get extorted with false rape allegations, stay safe

A tracksuit may have been pushing it.

Dressing reasonably well and being well groomed will get a better response out of most people.

Darling..... sorry to blow your bubble, but you are asking questions to answers you already have....