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Respecting boundaries
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Posted: 2024-06-17 15:51:38
Edited: 2024-06-17 15:52:15

Please don't be a selfish c#nt by forcing things on people, period, especially when they have said they dont offer/allow something. (this goes for both ladies and clients).

Respect goes both ways and NO means NO.

If you don't know if something is allowed or not, ASK before doing it rather than putting someone else's health at risk and/or making them feel uncomfortable and violated.

(If you are prepared to take all the risks in this industry, cool, this isn't a judgement post and you are a free thinking adult - knock yourself out).

Just some facts about STDs and STIs and why SPs may not offer specific services:

Kissing:
https://www.health.com/condition/sexual-health/can-you-get-std-from-kissing#:~:text=Herpes%2C%20cytomegalovirus%20(CMV)%2C,)%2C%20or%20trichomoniasis%20from%20kissing.

Unprotected oral sex:
www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/320807

Fingering:
middle-east.better2know.com/blog/2023/05/05/can-you-get-an-sti-from-fingering/

Skin to skin contact:
https://www.verywellhealth.com/sexually-transmitted-infections-spread-by-skin-contact-3133056#:~:text=Some%20sexually%20transmitted%20infections%20can,like%20a%20rash%20or%20lesions.

Mouthwash doesn't kill STDs or prevent infections:
https://www.verywellhealth.com/does-mouthwash-reduce-risk-of-oral-stds-4124069#:~:text=Summary,mouthwash%20can%20prevent%20an%20STI.

You can have an STI and not know it because symptoms don't always show:
https://www.marchofdimes.org/find-support/blog/sexually-transmitted-infections-can-happen-without-symptoms#:~:text=Many%20STIs%20don't%20have,swelling%20in%20the%20genital%20area

Consequences of overusing antibiotics for treatment:
www.urgentcaremds.com/what-are-the-medical-side-effects-of-overusing-antibiotics/

Safe sex:
https://www.betterhealth.vic.gov.au/health/healthyliving/safe-sex
kingkk
kingkk - Re: Respecting boundaries
Re: Respecting boundaries
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Posted: 2024-06-23 20:22:17

Thank you sharing all that information Ashleigh sure itlle help many a punter and wg and mg be safer. And also the respecting boundaries thing which is super important some people don't understand and respect no.

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