So many times one reaches crossroads in ones life where choices to be made are not so clear cut....influenced by need, by society, by other factors...a path taken otherwise not considered.

Could it be that those who believe in fate and that our paths are predetermined, thus affording us no choice in the matter, be right?

If so, then should one not make the most of that which presents itself in ones life? Or is it the easy way out and an excuse to surrender...

I received a wonderful email and was spurred to share one line quoted by the gentleman..."life would be tragic if it were not funny".

Considering the challenging, mind-boggling, intensely intimate and very revealing space the adult service is.....the opportunity to realise fantasies, live in the moment, absorb the very essence of sensuality, surrender to touch, have the courage to be sexy (for we all are!), is a gift in itself.

How far is one prepared to delve into that which is "taboo"?
Once the "choice" has been made, and the price to be paid carefully considered, for NOTHING comes for free, best to not spoil it with feelings of guilt or remorse.
Callous, i know, but one cant have it both ways.

How funny it is, that i can honestly admit, that i love the space that i find myself in.

An education of note....even higher than my university degrees.
I am growing up....slowly but surely.

Wishing all Many happy visits and generous sensual sexy spoils!!!

Xxx
B.

University Degrees ? As in more than one ?

Suitably impressed.

No wonder the writing is so eloquent.

One them English Lit by any chance ?


Once you made the choice to venture into this fucked up purple world, it is better not to reflect too much. Also don't talk about it.

Not a socially acceptable topic of conversation at least in my circle of friends.

But for each his own. Who am I to sit in judgement ?

Peace

Lovely piece of writing madam *blows kiss*

I cannot agree more...the time I spend with each and every lady is a Blessing as much as it is a curse...but I cherish each moment!

Happy Punting to All!!

My Dear Miss B.

Please continue to spoil us mere mortals with your thoughts and writings.
I have enjoyed each and every one.

Should one not have a sense of adventure when visiting a Lady? I most certainly do.

Choices made, with eyes wide open and be dammed the consequences.


Happy Punting

For myself punting equals choice

Not the obvious choices like, which area or which girl but far more then that.

The choice to give of myself and to accept what I receive in those moments together, enjoy every moment and not to regret any time spent in this pursuit.

For if I begin to regret then suddenly punting becomes just another mundane exchange between a horny punter and a "desperate" lady...

There will be disappointing punts but don't regret them, use them to make your next punt more memorable....

Happy Punting

Mr C

My dear Ms B, excellent piece of writing. What is life if it is just mediocre and same old same old. Keep learning and experience the edge and you will find yourself in a better space.

My dear lady Bridgitte


Your writing is so eloquent and thought provoking.

Regarding our purple world, we, as the citizenry, are, in my very very humble opinion, a lot more honest with ourselves, regarding our sexuality, than a significant proportion of those who consider carnal activities to be taboo. How did our planet come to be populated? Why should this subject, apart from being age restricted, be taboo? Sensuality and sexuality is a human need, like many of our other physical needs. Why not accept that fact? The hypocrisy in our world (the broader world, not the purple one) is profoundly sad and accounts for much stigmatisation and feelings of a lower self-worth. How negative that is. We're a species with so much potential. Consider our accomplishments, like space travel, scientific research and discoveries, advancements in medical science and technology in general. The list is endless. Yet, at the same time, we also display this horrific tendency to do harm to one another.

Regarding your current enrolment in the ESA university, I like your approach. One realisation that higher learning and the attainment of academic qualifications ought to bring about, is that, while much knowledge is acquired, there is still so much more to be learned. The world can teach us a great deal and yes, I agree, the ESA world does provide us with a noteworthy education, which, coupled with our existing education, can really enhance our experience of life.

"...Many happy visits and generous sensual sexy spoils..." Yes, yes, yes, let's have those in abundance.

Thank you, fine lady.
xxx

Love your new pics. So tempting.

Aaaah.....Mr Bond.

May i take this into another direction?

This one i base on my thoughts.

Many a time i ask myself why is it that there are many who see sex as a taboo...something shameful to discuss, think about never mind be a willing participant in.

Could it be that the freedom of those who have the liberty of thought and comfort of surrendering to ones sexuality and sensuality arouse discomfort in others only because there are those that covette and commit heinous crimes in the name of sexual criminal sickly pleasures?

Could it be that a woman who once saw herself as sexy and desirous has become overwhelmed with motherhood, "wifehood" , forgetting to be selfish in her sensual and sexual needs, threatened that all she has nutured and nourished can be stolen by the "sale" of sex?

Could it be that our upbringing demands of us to conform to what the majority deems befitting of a society as a whole taking care to protect and keep checks and balances in place when it comes to matters of the heart?

And thus not hypocrisy?

Sex, like money, will be with us.....desired, covetted, abused, enjoyed....no matter.

Like money, i choose to enjoy it and respect the very essence of the various nuances of sex......rewarding and fulfilling.
But.
In the right place at the right time.

Mr Bond.....i see we are thus on the same page when it comes to putting "sex" into perspective.

Xxx
B.

My dear lady Bridgitte

We're on the same page in so many other ways too.

We need to arrange my next visit. It' s overdue.

xxxx