Dear punters
I just want to get a general feeling out there. In the last 2 months I had 3 SP's cancel on me last moment.
Is it because I am too specific in what I want. If thats the case then why not just tell me upfront. And it wasnt even hectic weird shit I asked for.
Is this a new trend? Or am I just unlucky in my selection

Are you referring to the lady states "no" at the end of your initial discussion or did she state yes then while you are driving to her, she cancels?
The former, nothing wrong with that, she has a red flag feeling.
The latter, not on, but they also have no shows from clients on occasion...

No, they agree. Boundries discussed. Time set, venue booked. Ready to go... and then the excuses the night before the fun....

Why dont u just ask her the reason why she cancelled. We cant answer this question for u. Atleast she had the decency to let u know.
I know clients dont even call when they cancel. They just dont show. I also think thats the reason why some girls double book.

On 2024-11-29 11:30:32 Pumpkineater said:
Why dont u just ask her the reason why she cancelled. We cant answer this question for u. Atleast she had the decency to let u know.
I know clients dont even call when they cancel. They just dont show. I also think thats the reason why some girls double book.

Also the reason ladies have started implementing deposits the guys who behave in this fashion either realise that they making it hard for other punters or they just don't car.


To the op it could just be your luck or the lady really had some form of a issue either way it's frustrating and I empathize with you.

clients have half hour time frame if they dont call within that half hour to confirm theyon their way then i take another booking. If they then decide to say well im here in your street, i then say but you did ot confirm within the half hour. simple as that. I tell the guys this is my dos and donts before hand so nothing is going beyond that. They may ask over the phone what they would like, i simply say nay or yay. end of.

I have had cancellations while I was on the way to her. 5 minutes from her place she cancels. Also it was not my first visit to the lady. It was very very frustrating sitting in the car with blue balls.

Some just seemed like a poor excuse and others were just life happening.

I have had a SP cancel and notified me politely that one of her regulars has requested an appointment, which trumps my "first" visit. All good I suppose.