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Honestly my heart said just be honest........
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Posted: 2025-03-14 10:58:08

Hi, I've never posted or gotten involved in the business forum of ESA, but I have no choice other than to ask for help. I have never complained or gotten involved in any drama out of respect thier users, and us ladies.

In my career on this website I have never had a unpleasant experience involving another advertiser. Long story short she's deliberately contacting my clients and sayin' the most demeaning and disgusting thigs to my behind my back. I'm shocked and devastated.

Some of the things she is saying will definitely cause a major ripple effect damaging us ladies wellbeing...I'm at a loss for words can assist me, I don't want our clients and us to get hurt!!!

Kindest deepest regards
Ciccone
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Posted: 2025-03-14 13:05:23

This qoute below is for every lady out that worry about what is said behind their backs....

Those that know you will not believe anything said that is untrue and those that do believe untruths never knew you to start with.

They dont deserve to be in your circle. Its okay to let then believe what they want to and carry on with your life.



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Posted: 2025-03-14 17:00:18

On 2025-03-14 10:58:08 The Legendary Ms Ciccone said:
Hi, I've never posted or gotten involved in the business forum of ESA, but I have no choice other than to ask for help. I have never complained or gotten involved in any drama out of respect thier users, and us ladies.

In my career on this website I have never had a unpleasant experience involving another advertiser. Long story short she's deliberately contacting my clients and sayin' the most demeaning and disgusting thigs to my behind my back. I'm shocked and devastated.

Some of the things she is saying will definitely cause a major ripple effect damaging us ladies wellbeing...I'm at a loss for words can assist me, I don't want our clients and us to get hurt!!!

Kindest deepest regards
Ciccone



Most of the guys don't take this stuff too seriously. We hear the craziest stories and nastiness, stuff that is beyond belief. So don't let it get to you. You are certainly not the first and won't be the last lady on ESA that has been the victim of this sort of behavior.
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Posted: 2025-03-14 22:09:32

Don't let it bother you. If u did or said something wrong that individual needs to come up to you and tell u in a nice civilised manner. But sometimes people want to create bad rep for others because theirs so much animosty and jealousy it's overboilt. Also sometimes watch if you Neva heard it from that person's mouth that it was said by him or her. Some people like to cause frictions in friendship for reasons the person starting it doesn't even understand. And a joke if spoken about think aloud wow am I that admired and envied.
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Posted: 2025-03-17 02:37:47

On 2025-03-14 13:05:23 Miss Red ( Louise ) said:
This qoute below is for every lady out that worry about what is said behind their backs....

Those that know you will not believe anything said that is untrue and those that do believe untruths never knew you to start with.

They dont deserve to be in your circle. Its okay to let then believe what they want to and carry on with your life.





True story I recently experienced the same and just withdrew because it wasn't worth the drama or the issue if they knew me as a person they would have known better.
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Posted: 2025-03-17 02:40:40

On 2025-03-14 22:09:32 kingkk said:
Don't let it bother you. If u did or said something wrong that individual needs to come up to you and tell u in a nice civilised manner. But sometimes people want to create bad rep for others because theirs so much animosty and jealousy it's overboilt. Also sometimes watch if you Neva heard it from that person's mouth that it was said by him or her. Some people like to cause frictions in friendship for reasons the person starting it doesn't even understand. And a joke if spoken about think aloud wow am I that admired and envied.



True story. I take it this way I must have either been a huge threat or just the center of envy to be able to live rent free in someone else's head while I was just doing my thing. I guess the same could be applying to the OP
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Posted: 2025-03-17 02:41:31

On 2025-03-14 17:00:18 MajorJohn_reborn said:
On 2025-03-14 10:58:08 The Legendary Ms Ciccone said: Hi, I've never posted or gotten involved in the business forum of ESA, but I have no choice other than to ask for help. I have never complained or gotten involved in any drama out of respect thier users, and us ladies.

In my career on this website I have never had a unpleasant experience involving another advertiser. Long story short she's deliberately contacting my clients and sayin' the most demeaning and disgusting thigs to my behind my back. I'm shocked and devastated.

Some of the things she is saying will definitely cause a major ripple effect damaging us ladies wellbeing...I'm at a loss for words can assist me, I don't want our clients and us to get hurt!!!

Kindest deepest regards
Ciccone

Most of the guys don't take this stuff too seriously. We hear the craziest stories and nastiness, stuff that is beyond belief. So don't let it get to you. You are certainly not the first and won't be the last lady on ESA that has been the victim of this sort of behavior.



True story I'm still standing and so will she.
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Posted: 2025-03-17 09:43:36

Hi sweetie, Iv learnt not to get too close to girls , been burnt badly. Karma always delivers. Set your goals for ur life a stay focused. All best
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Posted: 2025-03-17 14:02:37
Edited: 2025-03-17 14:06:05

Sadly in today's time... accusations is enough to tarnish ones reputation badly.
It's seems that gossip is a new found addiction and it's only getting worse.
Let's just hope and pray the people that's meant to be in your life ,will know that there is ALWAYS, two sides to a story. I've lost some good clients due to bad stories that wasn't true at all.
And yet their will always be some genuine people that will come to you and give you a heads up of what's happening behind your back. Even then, damage have already been done.

Keep your head high and don't scoop to their level.

Kind regards Kylie
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Posted: 2025-03-20 11:37:19

Good morning beautiful people, thank u so so much for the support, and u guy are right. I was extremely hurt an it knocked me down, because I thought that us brave ladies stood for each other...... But I've really realised that some of the lady's do truly care and some are just being themselves. As long as you know your hearts intentions, the client has his own eyes and will see the truth .

Thanks again for assisting me with wise and comforting replies means the world to me x x x

Anyway... Enough moaning and hurting for me, beautiful slay queens let's DO the best we can and rock this day


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Ms Ciccone

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