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Advice Needed: How to get into the swinging scene
Posted: 2025-03-24 11:07:35
I am a young gent in my mid 20s from Centurion, I have punted a couple of times and it was amazing.
However I have always was curious about the swinging/cuckold scene. Always heard stories and fantasized about being a companion to a couple or being part of a like minded group of people who just want to have fun.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
However I have always was curious about the swinging/cuckold scene. Always heard stories and fantasized about being a companion to a couple or being part of a like minded group of people who just want to have fun.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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Re: Advice Needed: How to get into the swinging scene
Posted: 2025-03-24 11:14:51
check out Kiwi Klub
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Re: Advice Needed: How to get into the swinging scene
Posted: 2025-03-25 05:25:31
One way but is to book a boat cruise.
On your cabin door (outside), stick an upside down pineapple picture or stamp.
Swingers be knocking.
Just make sure the boat cruise company hasn't banned pineapple symbols
On your cabin door (outside), stick an upside down pineapple picture or stamp.
Swingers be knocking.
Just make sure the boat cruise company hasn't banned pineapple symbols
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Re: Advice Needed: How to get into the swinging scene
Posted: 2025-03-25 07:04:07
This had me laughing so hard I spit out my tea!
How sad that consensual adult activities are frowned upon by some cruise companies
On 2025-03-25 05:25:31 Theand said:
Just make sure the boat cruise company hasn't banned pineapple symbols
This had me laughing so hard I spit out my tea!
How sad that consensual adult activities are frowned upon by some cruise companies
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Re: Advice Needed: How to get into the swinging scene
Posted: 2025-03-25 08:29:34
This is fascinating! I'm so aroused by this! :o
On 2025-03-25 05:25:31 Theand said:
One way but is to book a boat cruise.
On your cabin door (outside), stick an upside down pineapple picture or stamp.
Swingers be knocking.
Just make sure the boat cruise company hasn't banned pineapple symbols
This is fascinating! I'm so aroused by this! :o
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Re: Advice Needed: How to get into the swinging scene
Posted: 2025-03-25 09:24:59
When we going on a cruise?
On 2025-03-25 08:29:34 Candice Lumi said:
On 2025-03-25 05:25:31 Theand said: One way but is to book a boat cruise.
On your cabin door (outside), stick an upside down pineapple picture or stamp.
Swingers be knocking.
Just make sure the boat cruise company hasn't banned pineapple symbols
This is fascinating! I'm so aroused by this! :o
When we going on a cruise?
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Re: Advice Needed: How to get into the swinging scene
Posted: 2025-03-25 09:57:29
Create a profile on X & Reddit and search for the Hotwife category. Link up with those in the scene. It's helluva hard to break into though.
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Re: Advice Needed: How to get into the swinging scene
Posted: 2025-03-25 10:11:09
The best approach is to join Fetlife.com, search for South African groups, and then look for swinging events. The moderators will reach out to you and guide you through the process from there.
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Re: Advice Needed: How to get into the swinging scene
Posted: 2025-03-25 10:16:27
Do a search on swinger sites in South Africa, a popular site is the first listing after the sponsored sites. It's hard for a single guy to get any hits, especially for a newbie. Try to find a partner and create a couples profile, you're guaranteed a much higher success rate.
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Re: Advice Needed: How to get into the swinging scene
Posted: 2025-03-25 11:24:31
I can assist - you have mail:)
Xoxo
Lisa
Xoxo
Lisa
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