Gentlemen, i had this discussion over a few drinks last night, but want the expert options of this group.

Should you go fully loaded or blow one out before visiting a SP to have a better experience?

If you "fuck to cum", go fully loaded.

If you have lots of "control" and enjoy lots of play, theres no need to release prior to the visit.

If you are very quick on the "trigger" then it could be to your benefit to "release" before the visit.

As an SP who enjoys being able to use you for my pleasure, my answer would be:

What makes you last longer in the session?

Keeping in mind how long it might take for you to get hard enough for me ride you until we're covered in my squirt...

On 2025-03-25 05:27:59 nsasexguy said:

Should you go fully loaded or blow one out before visiting a SP to have a better experience?

Do you go to war with a empty magazine?

Watch "There's something about Mary", there's a life lesson about dating and blowing one out before the big event to keep you motived and confident!

Never go in fully loaded, you don't want the excitement to result in premature release!!

Lol this is not for the guys with a strong post-nut clarity, they'd end up not punting at all

On 2025-03-25 18:33:56 Sir Shadow Hefner said:
Lol this is not for the guys with a strong post-nut clarity, they'd end up not punting at all

Yup, if I nutted +-10 hours before every time I would still be a virgin :)

You're paying them to fuck. Not the same as trying to impress a girlfriend or hook-up. Kinda like eating at home before going to a buffet so you're not hungry and don't eat too much at the buffet or walking halfway to your destination to meet the Uber driver so he doesn't have to drive too far.

If cumming too soon is the issue, then have a quick fuck and then go for round two which is actually what most of the guys do with that issue. From what I understand from drinking discussions with guys who are lucky enough to have that issue, they generally cum less than 10 minutes (many say 2 minutes) into the session and the SP's generally are all too happy to go for another round after a little massage which then is longer and takes them to the end of the hour so in a way, they have a better time. Best of both worlds, one really horny explosion busting to come out and then a nice long indulgent session teasing and pleasing and building up to it.

Plus, I'd say check your satisfaction levels after. Maybe you're perfectly content after a quick round as the others have mentioned post-nut clarity so you may only need to book a quickie or 30 minutes. No use forcing an issue. On the other hand, you wank off before and go there and still come in 10-15 minutes and spend the next 45 minutes playing therapist or leaving early to get out of it.

There's no one size fits all. See what works for you to bring you the most satisfaction.

JP69

I'm always ready to shoot in the first 5 minutes but I have methods in place to prevent it. Unfortunately this may result in me changing what I'm doing at the crucial point where she is enjoying and wants me to keep the same pace. Rubbing one out is out of the question for me because the weapon is stronger and harder when I'm fully loaded.

On 2025-03-25 18:33:56 Sir Shadow Hefner said:
Lol this is not for the guys with a strong post-nut clarity, they'd end up not punting at all

Agree. The post-nut clarity is strong with me.