So that's the text I received this morning from a punter with whom I decided to exercise my right of admission. This gent visited me once before, I did not enjoy the session at all. When you have to keep reminding a person of rules and boundaries and they have a self entitlement attitude it puts you off them for good. He goes on to say I have the wrong guy ( perhaps being service providers diminishes our level of intelligence or affects our memory? )and then he says he will pay double for the session. Why would anyone in their right mind wish to torment themselves by spending time with said person? Good service is hard to come by and many of the ladies out there do their best to stay as professional as possible even when some punters behave like c*nts.

My question then is, why is it ok for a punter to make the decision private or public, not to see a particular service provider ok but when the shoe is on the other foot punters cry foul?

In my opinion there is nothing worse than having to spend time with someone you really do not want to be spending time with.

Having said all that, my only request is that punters respect a lady's decision not to see you again for whatever reason. For some, the money is just not worth the experience. We have a choice, respect it please.

You are SO RIGHT!!!!

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Sorry for your bad experience Lady Ray.

Unfortunately, it seems it is easier for the punter to play the victim than to own up to being ass on a previous occasion(s).

On 2017-04-11 10:57:54 Lady Ray said:
So that's the text I received this morning from a punter with whom I decided to exercise my right of admission. This gent visited me once before, I did not enjoy the session at all. When you have to keep reminding a person of rules and boundaries and they have a self entitlement attitude it puts you off them for good. He goes on to say I have the wrong guy ( perhaps being service providers diminishes our level of intelligence or affects our memory? )and then he says he will pay double for the session. Why would anyone in their right mind wish to torment themselves by spending time with said person? Good service is hard to come by and many of the ladies out there do their best to stay as professional as possible even when some punters behave like c*nts.

My question then is, why is it ok for a punter to make the decision private or public, not to see a particular service provider ok but when the shoe is on the other foot punters cry foul?

In my opinion there is nothing worse than having to spend time with someone you really do not want to be spending time with.

Having said all that, my only request is that punters respect a lady's decision not to see you again for whatever reason. For some, the money is just not worth the experience. We have a choice, respect it please.

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you are damn right mis L

Like # this is so true

@Lady Ray yes it is your choice; if he doesn't respect your decision it simply validates your choice in the first place.

Such a good point. Money doesn't mean you can have whatever you want.... to some it's just not worth the price (emotionally).

One of the worst sessions is constantly having to be on guard and gently berate the person because they are intent on breaking the boundaries. I don't understand why a punter would purposefully make a girl uncomfortable when there are probably dozens of ladies who would cater to what he wants...

Lady Ray.. I love the way you chose to excercise your right to the "right of admission" policy, because of bad behavior shown previously by the said client.
You see guys, it's not always about an issue regarding cultural differences.
#justsaying

Lady Ray you made the right decision. Always go with your gut feeling, it's probably saved you today.

XOXOXO