I am a highly educated individual. I have a job in which I deal with very serious people and topics on a daily basis. I went to one of the top boys schools in the country where I was a leader in my field. I have treated every single lady I have ever met on this forum with dignity and respect. Miss Paige and I have even grown a wonderful mutual respect in the wake of her drama. And yet I deal with this shit

"Hey black boy keep away from dem white girls stick to your own ama Zulu's. Retard, don't be talking about how stupid white people are then try to bang white girls. Double standard skunk." Now a couple of things. I am not Zulu. I'm not retarded and I certainly do not smell like a skunk. My R4000 cologne cupboard proves that. This guy has not messaged me for weeks. This message is old. But he has been watching my movements and sent me another unsolicited message tonight. I enjoy white women. It's a fetish but in my personal life and schooling and (5) years at university it's who I dated. Why should I get judged or suffer such abuse? Why should this enter my life on this site? Can anyone explain this thinking to me. I get racism at a braai but here where our choices are private. Why?

I need to add that I point out that I am not Zulu simply because it's an assumption this doos made about me not because I equate it to being of a lower standard. Please let that be clear. I am a coloured man but I identify as black politically and culturally.

The last time I said something about racial issues I was banned.

Bro I feel you I actually don't give to shits what other ppl think if you feel you don't want to be in my company because you superior in what ever way it's your loss not mine.

Btw do you have lacoste and joop in that collection

Frankstar darling.. you shouldn't take offense to those who clearly don't know you as the respectful individual you are. You have a preference in women, so frieken what!! (I wouldn't call it a fetish though lol) Stay the sexy man you are and done let certain persons dampen your Friday!! Gaan drink n paar drankies en vergeet hulle. They don't define you or am a part of your life.. therefore meaningless into existence. XOXOXO

Thank you Miss Ruby. You are such a gem. I can't explain what that means from a woman like you. Still for this reprobate to speak to me in this way is cutting. We work everyday to be equal and then this.

Treat any person who uses the word "dem" instead of "them" with the respect that they deserve i.e. none

Dear Frankstar... Yes after all my shit you never let me down. You stood by me all this time... till today. I'm proud to know you and proud to call YOU a real friend. Your not fake and not false and don't live in a glass house but you respect me in so many ways... I'm lucky to know you and I think your an amazing guy... there's so many people who can't accept themselves for who they are and always want to blame others... one word can turn their little lives upside down... such an agony... but your awesome

Bro.........

On 2017-11-10 20:40:10 johndoe69za said:
Treat any person who uses the word "dem" instead of "them" with the respect that they deserve i.e. none

If I told you what I do a for a living dem would be the least of my problems. The grammar and punctuation in his message had me convulsing. Heathen.

An anonymous person hiding behind a pseudonym on an escort website ....... next message don't bother to read, just delete