I have never had to cancel a booking however I have found myself thinking about this. Imagine if a punter made a booking and rocked up only to find that the SP doesn't look like their pictures. What does etiquette dictate here? If I found the real person unattractive I'd want to cancel so my questions are: 1. Would I have to pay a cancellation fee? 2. How much in general is a cancellation fee as a percentage of the booking fee, or does the fee differ wildly from SP to SP? Another scenario in which I can see myself wanting to cancel is if I go there but find the place run down or horribly unclean or dodgy in some other way despite the SP in question being okay looks-wise. I may want to cancel in this scenario so the two cancellation fee questions would also apply in this hypothetical. I'm hoping to hear from both punters and SPs.

I once paid a cancelation fee because the SP couldn't continue with the booking when I got there.

Refused to let me out unless I paid!!!

On 2024-03-15 23:19:02 rhee69 said:
I once paid a cancelation fee because the SP couldn't continue with the booking when I got there.

Refused to let me out unless I paid!!!

What??????!!!!! Is this a thing that happens? Or was this a particularly horrible SP?

Women are hypocrites.When we say this ,the call us misogynistic etc.Punters can spend time, petrol etc to a booking,upon arrival if the sp doesn't want to proceed she won't compensate you.But if a punter doesn't want to proceed he must pay
"cancelation fee".Nigerian guys don't tolerate this nonsense.Some punters just pay because they don't want drama and have reputation to protect, and some SPs are aware of this and that is why they take advantage of some punters.

My personal opinion is that you owe them what ever you agreed to pay for that session. What you are paying for is there time. If you want to cancel, then you have wasted their time.

That's why I believe it is important to be direct in your communication before you rock up to your booking. I know that many SPs don't like giving their exact location, which is understandable. So I usually ask what type of place are you working from, hotel ,apartment or venue etc. and if they are working alone, all those types of things.Meaning, that by the time you arrive there you have an idea of what your session should be like.

Also SPs having up to date pictures tends to help avoid scenario 1.

I do agree that a cancellation should be paid, if the punter decides to cancell due to

1) looks of the SP
2) Area or Venue
3) not the age as advertised
4) punter intoxicated
5) punter under influence of a substance (including weed)
6) Hygene not to standard

But no fees are due if the SP is

1) intoxicated
2) under the influence of any substance (including weed)
3) hygene not to standard.
4) SP not prepare to continue with session.

On 2024-03-16 18:35:22 Kooni said:
I do agree that a cancellation should be paid, if the punter decides to cancell due to

1) looks of the SP
2) Area or Venue
3) not the age as advertised
4) punter intoxicated
5) punter under influence of a substance (including weed)
6) Hygene not to standard

But no fees are due if the SP is

1) intoxicated
2) under the influence of any substance (including weed)
3) hygene not to standard.
4) SP not prepare to continue with session.

You said hygiene in both instances.

On 2024-03-16 18:33:27 Krypt said:
My personal opinion is that you owe them what ever you agreed to pay for that session. What you are paying for is there time. If you want to cancel, then you have wasted their time.

That's why I believe it is important to be direct in your communication before you rock up to your booking. I know that many SPs don't like giving their exact location, which is understandable. So I usually ask what type of place are you working from, hotel ,apartment or venue etc. and if they are working alone, all those types of things.Meaning, that by the time you arrive there you have an idea of what your session should be like.

Also SPs having up to date pictures tends to help avoid scenario 1.

I can counter that if you severely altered your images then you have wasted MY time as I made the booking under false pretenses... Touch ups are one thing but the photoshopping has gone amok. You'd be shocked.

On 2024-03-16 18:38:21 t_1993 said:
On 2024-03-16 18:35:22 Kooni said: I do agree that a cancellation should be paid, if the punter decides to cancell due to

1) looks of the SP
2) Area or Venue
3) not the age as advertised
4) punter intoxicated
5) punter under influence of a substance (including weed)
6) Hygene not to standard

But no fees are due if the SP is

1) intoxicated
2) under the influence of any substance (including weed)
3) hygene not to standard.
4) SP not prepare to continue with session.




You said hygiene in both instances.

Thanks for pointing that out. Should have explained it better.

Cancellation payable if punters hygene not to standard.

No cancellation fee if the SP hygene is not to standard.

Totally agree on the misrepresentation, SP has face profile pics which are so grossly over filtered and when you get there expecting the daughter, you don't even get the mother you're met with the Grandmother version of what was presented prior to arrival