Hi guys just a little curious about She Males and what you guys go to them for and do when with them. Please shed some light on this topic and also perhaps give me some recommendations on which ones I should see in gauteng

We to go them for exactly what homophobes (like you) go to female escorts for. The reasons are varied. The fact that your language so clearly objectifies them ("which ones" as opposed to, for example, "who") leads me to believe you are just setting up for a troll or to call those who visit them some slur. If I am wrong and your question is genuine then the very first thing I would suggest is editing your thinking to remove them from any "otherness" category and begin by treating them for exactly what they are: gorgeous people living with their unique sexuality just the same as you, me and everyone else. Respectful words begin with respectful thoughts.

Much respect to you sir @oraljim for always articulating your thoughts coherently and more importantly respectfully.

On 2021-11-29 13:07:55 oraljim said:
We to go them for exactly what homophobes (like you) go to female escorts for. The reasons are varied. The fact that your language so clearly objectifies them ("which ones" as opposed to, for example, "who") leads me to believe you are just setting up for a troll or to call those who visit them some slur. If I am wrong and your question is genuine then the very first thing I would suggest is editing your thinking to remove them from any "otherness" category and begin by treating them for exactly what they are: gorgeous people living with their unique sexuality just the same as you, me and everyone else. Respectful words begin with respectful thoughts.

What an absolute pleasure you must be in real life.

How I read the original poster's message is he is new and willing to try it but not sure what he is letter himself in for. If that's the case then I guess the question is what do you want? She-males are versatile...they will do and let you do what you want and are comfortable with.

On 2021-11-29 14:06:35 Loverboy_SA said:
What an absolute pleasure you must be in real life.

I get that a lot - thanks for noticing :-D

I've been on this site, and others of a sexual nature, for a very long time. You get to develop a "feeling" of when people are genuine or not. You interpreted the request as genuine. I have seen enough of that sort of language where trans people are completely objectified - and by that I Mean it in the most technical of interpretations, that they literally see trans as "things" and not as "people".

I may be completely wrong - I frequently am - in which case I will humbly and sincerely apologise but it will take a fair bit to convince me I am indeed wrong.

Also Loverboy, if you have been paying any form of attention you will have seen that I am quite happy to advise people on the topic (not that I am an expert - I am not) because it is obvious that the discussion is genuine. This post does not rise to that level.

On 2021-11-29 13:42:20 Laidback007 said:
Much respect to you sir @oraljim for always articulating your thoughts coherently and more importantly respectfully.

Sincere thanks for your kind words.

I was asking a legitimate question not to slur or troll nothing I was merely interested

@Lavish17. My advice would be to give it a go. You will probably be surprised. Take it slow. My first experience was with Honey. She was and continues to be brilliant and she is hot.

You will be in for the ride of your life. Tgirls are often very attentive, open minded and considerate lovers. They define femininety. My only regret is not getting involved a lot sooner. I have miised out on a lot of talent. Now I am totally hooked. I would recommend LeilaB highly, especially for a first timer. It will be a life changing experience. Jessica, Gigi, Honey are amazing. Yoshi is a real cute honeybunny as well.

Thanks all. Oraljim it wasn't like that at all.