So I've realized that some ladies seem to be putting clients under a bit of pressure on seeing other wg,s That u actually get asked not to mention they've seen u lol ,why does some WG feel the need to mark territory it's not yours to mark ,putting fear in the poor guy lol

This is very true, I have had some try this on me, but I am my own person.

Also don't believe everything you hear. I have had some ladies say things about others. It's all politics, but I believe what I see.

The more I am told not to go see someone, the more I will go, to see for myself

I think we've all had this, I know I have. Why did you see her, why'd you give x a review and not me etc.
Very annoying

The thing is that every client has the right to try something different so if u have no insecurities and u good he will always come back ,why try the wifey act

Some girls think that they own clients... it's insecurity and jealousy at one of its worst forms. I've had it happening to me for years now. Just keep doing what you do babe and keep your head held high... . Xxxx

There are 2 scenarios from my experience;

1. Girl A wants to lock the punter in, to have constant income stream - money

2. Girl A actually likes/lusts after the punter and get jealous - affection

There is no sense in forcing boundaries around a punter. The lady will achieve the exact opposite of what she doesn't want to happen. The same goes for guys who become possessive towards a girl.

One of my favorites here, Jeasmine, is very cool about her clients seeing other ladies. Her attitude is "go see others, then you'll be back to me!"

That's confidence and a winning attitude.

Samira, It's even worse when you're not white. Lots of white girls have issues with their clients seeing us brown ladies. We know who they are. And it's ladies who are generally held in high esteem, you'll be surprised at the names floating around. I was very surprised by who has issues with whomever a client chooses to see, white or not. It's ladies who are well rated and respected in the trade.
So white ladies just accept your clients see us too, they just don't acknowledge it here. No client is ever solely yours irrespective of what they tell you. A late friend, who operated in Bonaero Park back in the day, and I had the discussion aeon's ago and we had almost all the same regulars in common. We were both older and very busty. Just she was white and 6"2. And these guys told us both they visit us exclusively.
There is no such thing as a client being only yours. Every lady is probably one of a few regular ladies he sees. You would be a fool to believe he sees you alone. I always had a good laugh at guys I knew from venues/houses I worked at who would never book me. (One said 'ek naai nie myt nie). But when I started on my own they came to book me. I wanted to turn some of them down but that would have been foolish. I wanted to say to the anti-myt guy "hoe naai so 'n myt nou vir jou?" But I kept quiet cos I had already won. He came to me regularly and what a gentleman and lover! I had always known him as a drunk at houses I worked at but I got to know the passionate gentleman he really could be when he was sober. I had won!.

@Nadia It can backfire, too. There is a well-respected lady here who said years ago that she preferred not seeing clients who saw 'brown' ladies. So I respected her wishes and never booked her again.

If the guy is dumb enough to let himself be controlled or limited by a wg about who he sees or not, I have no simpathy for him.

She ain't gonna fuck you beter just because you only visit her or make her believe you only visit her. That is a myth.

In fact she will probably fuck you beter if she knows you seeing other girls. Because she knows she has to work to keep you coming back.