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Whats in a name
Posted: 2021-10-06 12:38:04
So I realised today that I avoid ladies with certain names, there is an absolute stunner on her who ticks all my boxes. However her working name is the same as my mother and just no can't do it
Does the ladies name affect you or not
Jake
Does the ladies name affect you or not
Jake
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Re: Whats in a name
Posted: 2021-10-06 12:44:51
Oh dear...this made me smile now...LOL
On 2021-10-06 12:38:04 Jakeburns78 said:
So I realised today that I avoid ladies with certain names, there is an absolute stunner on her who ticks all my boxes. However her working name is the same as my mother and just no can't do it
Does the ladies name affect you or not
Jake
Oh dear...this made me smile now...LOL
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Re: Whats in a name
Posted: 2021-10-06 12:48:21
I know what you mean. I had a client whose name was my dad's name. But the fact he looked like "the Rock" I just had to have him.
I am sure once your in her presence your forget the name thing. I know I did...
On 2021-10-06 12:38:04 Jakeburns78 said:
So I realised today that I avoid ladies with certain names, there is an absolute stunner on her who ticks all my boxes. However her working name is the same as my mother and just no can't do it
Does the ladies name affect you or not
Jake
I know what you mean. I had a client whose name was my dad's name. But the fact he looked like "the Rock" I just had to have him.
I am sure once your in her presence your forget the name thing. I know I did...
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Re: Whats in a name
Posted: 2021-10-06 12:49:12
Not really, but if you like the name makes things a little interesting
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Re: Whats in a name
Posted: 2021-10-06 12:53:45
Edited: 2021-10-06 12:54:31
Edited: 2021-10-06 12:54:31
This reminds me of my 2 ex boyfriends i dated in the past,whose mothers had the same names as me.They never called me by my full name hahahaha,especially the other one,when his angry at me.he would say to me you just like my mom hahaha,and have a regular his mom also has my name hahaha....
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Re: Whats in a name
Posted: 2021-10-06 14:06:25
Lol .. made me smile.
Just remember that the names on here are very rarely the real names... So just ask if you can call her something else or stick to ..sweety, darling, my lady ect..
Have a regular client that had been calling me sonja since the first time he showed up . Never corrected him.
A month or so ago he asks me to send him the links to all my ads.. he then whatsups me and ask me why I changed my name? That's why he could not find my ads! Calmly just told him I never changed my name he called me sonja from day one and I thought it was part of a fantasy thing so just did not say anything ;)
Now he uses Louise or call me miss, but now and then still slips up and call me sonja. I think it is hilarious when it happens ;)
Just remember that the names on here are very rarely the real names... So just ask if you can call her something else or stick to ..sweety, darling, my lady ect..
Have a regular client that had been calling me sonja since the first time he showed up . Never corrected him.
A month or so ago he asks me to send him the links to all my ads.. he then whatsups me and ask me why I changed my name? That's why he could not find my ads! Calmly just told him I never changed my name he called me sonja from day one and I thought it was part of a fantasy thing so just did not say anything ;)
Now he uses Louise or call me miss, but now and then still slips up and call me sonja. I think it is hilarious when it happens ;)
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Re: Whats in a name
Posted: 2021-10-06 17:53:22
Haha I wonder how I would react if I experienced this. There is something unshakeably yucky, even though you know it shouldn't matter. Maybe give Miss Red's advice a try and just change the name. Little head will thank you for it.
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Re: Whats in a name
Posted: 2021-10-06 18:01:33
Jake...just call her BABE and pomp away!
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Re: Whats in a name
Posted: 2021-10-11 08:10:22
How about seeing a lady that advertises under a name and when you get to know her and her real name slips out she has the same name as your daughter...
Instant drooper pointing to half past six. Took many a minute to figure out how to overcum that one.
Instant drooper pointing to half past six. Took many a minute to figure out how to overcum that one.
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Re: Whats in a name
Posted: 2021-10-11 09:05:41
I prefer Mami, but good idea, rename, use a generic name and have your fun. If your best friend or brother was married to a sexy goddess. Assuming they are religious and will not share. Then you find a gorgeous lady advertising on ESA with the same name, you are going to want to try that out
On 2021-10-06 18:01:33 semensquirter said:
Jake...just call her BABE and pomp away!
I prefer Mami, but good idea, rename, use a generic name and have your fun. If your best friend or brother was married to a sexy goddess. Assuming they are religious and will not share. Then you find a gorgeous lady advertising on ESA with the same name, you are going to want to try that out
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