He said "You're very beautiful, for a black girl."

What does this even mean???. After all the visits... I shouldn't have let you touch me , really.

What the arsehole meant is that black girls are generally not beautiful,judging by his standards.

On 2021-10-13 12:32:37 Dublin said:
What the arsehole meant is that black girls are generally not beautiful,judging by his standards.

Yes. My translation is, "you're either black or you look good".

Oh, how I hate that. Iow as mentioned above black girls aren't beautiful but fuckable.

On 2021-10-13 12:36:46 Bbw Nadia said:
Oh, how I hate that. Iow as mentioned above black girls aren't beautiful but fuckable.

Oh... let's not play the "who is fuckable" game now =D

I know what was meant by the comment and i think it came out wrong. So i am going to go into territory that even Satan would not tread.

I like my woman white and with more European features. Just a taste thing not racist. Not everyone loves blue cheese.

Then you meet a black lady that has features maybe more European and that may actually appeal to me.

Sorry if i have offended but hopefully this may explain the poor choice of words.

I think you have it there Brucewaybe.

I can imagine how that insensitivity may have hurt you. The issue isn't you.

I prefer black features myself. Men seem to have their preferences and they're usually affirmed by whatever they saw growing up.

I hope you didn't have to force being intimate after that comment.

That was pretty insensitive of him.

I assume he is white.

If so, and he is on the older side, remember that we were raised in a society where we were programmed to see black people as ugly. Let's be honest, not just ugly, but sub-human. And we were programmed to believe black people knew they were ugly and inferior.

I mean, it was a crime to be caught with a black girl back then.

If you dared admit to a friend that you found a black girl attractive, then he would spread the word and soon everybody would talk of you as if you had a serious mental illness. You'd have been a freak. And in some cases you'd even get a visit from a yellow police van.

I witnessed things like this first hand and I am sure many of the punters here did as well.

I he's a youngish guy, then his parents raised him wrong.

Still not condoning what he did, but his stupidity may be remnants of old indoctrination.

He can say whatever he wants,,known fact is that over 70% black women give a great service if compared to other races