I got divorced 2 years ago due to my addiction to escorts. I finally decided to start dating again and the first lady I met and really liked happens to be an escort. She was reluctant to tell me at first but I knew her secret and found a way to get it out of her so she can be at ease. My problem now is that I feel bad as she sometimes ignores calls from clients or becomes reluctant to honour her appointments although I've told her that she must not sacrifice her business because of me. It's still early stages in the relationship and I'm serious about her and comfortable knowing she is texting or talking to clients on the phone and she need not walk out everytime she gets a call. Any tips on Do's and Don't's from my side and what I can do to let her feel more comfortable when talking to clients?

Are you fine with kissing her after some client cums in her mouth?

If yes than you will be fine

You've lost one relationship to escorts/punting. Now you are getting into another with an escort. So it will seem that you should be happy now and not be indulging in other escorts/WGs.

If you are serious about her, take her out of this business and start a new life. With you not visiting escorts and she not taking clients. If you are just looking for some fun, then leave her alone and stick to your punting.

My 2c

On 2021-09-13 11:23:27 mlungn01 said:
I got divorced 2 years ago due to my addiction to escorts. I finally decided to start dating again and the first lady I met and really liked happens to be an escort. She was reluctant to tell me at first but I knew her secret and found a way to get it out of her so she can be at ease. My problem now is that I feel bad as she sometimes ignores calls from clients or becomes reluctant to honour her appointments although I've told her that she must not sacrifice her business because of me. It's still early stages in the relationship and I'm serious about her and comfortable knowing she is texting or talking to clients on the phone and she need not walk out everytime she gets a call. Any tips on Do's and Don't's from my side and what I can do to let her feel more comfortable when talking to clients?

Simply pay her by the hour and you're all good.

On 2021-09-13 11:51:40 uwillwantme said:

If you are serious about her, take her out of this business and start a new life. With you not visiting escorts and she not taking clients. If you are just looking for some fun, then leave her alone and stick to your punting.

My 2c

I have to agree with this... if u are serious about her then stop wasting her time.

I'm happy to have a private chat with u. I'm a relationship councillor

I lost the previous relationship because I was unhappy and I can surely say I am happy now with her. I am truly serious about her and I decided to quit punting 2 years ago when I left my marriage and have kept my word... Yes I have abstained from sex for 2 years training myself not to cheat again. I have found my best friend in her, she just happens to be in the business which I fully understand given her circumstances. I'm not in this for fun but for a serious relationship. I also don't want her quitting her income as I cannot afford to replace the income she currently makes nor do I want her dependent on me fully as yet. I believe she must quit on her own, for herself, at her own time. I do kiss her though, I mean I used to kiss other SPs when I booked as I'm the gfe kinda guy. Judging from this, we will be fine

You happy, she's happy. Go for it.

As far as her being comfortable with answering calls in your presence, no go. It's not only her comfort but I can't think of 1 punter that wants the wgs bf to be listening to the calls. Her business is discreet so let her keep it that way. Trust me, you'll feel all kinds ways when you here some of the things she/they say so you rather not.

Just enjoy each other and see where you'll can take it. Maybe bldowncthe line you'll can come up with an alternative income source for her. I mean, what if she is your soulmate that fell on hard times and unfortunately has to do this? If it's that good, try.

N4P

All the best. I am sure it is not going to be easy. Her quitting the business has to be her decision and when she is ready.

I hope it works out for you guys.

Just remember, sharing is one thing the relationship is not too serious. But something else entirely if you become deeply emotionally invested. Something to consider.