Yesterday i read a post that flared up real fast but intrigued by what came out of it.
Ladies talking about us in the ladies section.
What exactly has been said and have reliable is the source?
It makes much sense to me now, when i have contacted a few SPs some of them reply with "oh i heard about you", or some of them have an attitude.
However Ive only canceled two appointments from ladies, that was 1 day in advanced.
Punters is there anyway of us protecting and clearing our name? Who all knows what's been said about us, that possibly push the ladies away from accepting the booking.
On 2021-06-14 09:24:34 Mr Easy D said:
I am interested to know how us as punters can clear or protect our name, what exactly is considered as a bad punter?
Yesterday i read a post that flared up real fast but intrigued by what came out of it.
Ladies talking about us in the ladies section.
What exactly has been said and have reliable is the source?
It makes much sense to me now, when i have contacted a few SPs some of them reply with "oh i heard about you", or some of them have an attitude.
However Ive only canceled two appointments from ladies, that was 1 day in advanced.
Punters is there anyway of us protecting and clearing our name? Who all knows what's been said about us, that possibly push the ladies away from accepting the booking.
Are you referring to the Ladies Forum that we don't get to see? There is the Punters Forum that they don't get to see
On 2021-06-14 09:24:34 Mr Easy D said:
I am interested to know how us as punters can clear or protect our name, what exactly is considered as a bad punter?
Yesterday i read a post that flared up real fast but intrigued by what came out of it.
Ladies talking about us in the ladies section.
What exactly has been said and have reliable is the source?
It makes much sense to me now, when i have contacted a few SPs some of them reply with "oh i heard about you", or some of them have an attitude.
However Ive only canceled two appointments from ladies, that was 1 day in advanced.
Punters is there anyway of us protecting and clearing our name? Who all knows what's been said about us, that possibly push the ladies away from accepting the booking.
I doubt you'll be on the naughty list for canceling two appointments a day in advance. There must be another reason. The simplest thing to get you flagged is making countless enquiries with the same ladies without following through with bookings. You'll be labeled a time waster. Some guys inadvertently get themselves flagged as time wasters because maybe they are cautious, but put in enquiries when they feel confident enough, then back down and when they feel they can do it put in enquiries again and often to the same girls. Whether intentional or not they are wasting the ladies' time. You sound like a cautious guy hence the cancellations, I don't know, but there must be something that you've done that you're not disclosing or a behavior that you didnt realise is perceived negative that got you flagged.
This is an informal system. There is no formal way to clear your name. Your only option is to get a new profile, get a new number and start fresh and rectify previous behavior. That is if you have not done something in person whereby they know what you look like. I don't think plastic surgery is worth it just to continue punting.
So you say you only cancelled twice but maybe there is more to your story, I don't know, but
Just like you writing a review, A lady can't have it removed.
So when either party does not play their part in this game there are consequences, both sides.
Be a gentleman,
Be respectful of the lady and her time,
Be gentle unless asked to do different,
Stop if asked to stop,
Be on time,
Pay the agreed amount,
Be sober and
Be clean and
The exact same goes for the lady except she must make sure she blows his mind to ensure he wants to come back.
All the above is pretty basic.
A lady can try change profiles but some guys are on a mission to destroy some lady's businesses and are forced off ESA.
A punter can change his sim card and start with a clean slate but once you F-up again your new number will be listed too.
So bottom line is play your part.
I would not lose sleep over it, it's not like it's going to affect your income!
Shelley
Edited: 2021-06-14 12:26:08
On 2021-06-14 09:44:55 ASASH said:
What medium are you using to contact said providers.
I use my cellphone number. WhatsApp or text to let them know I am on the way. If I cancel its Via call to make sure she got the message.
Edited: 2021-06-14 10:10:51
Some ladies have even retracted a warning if a guy sets things right. Some have even stood up for guys.
We are not idiots when it comes to warnings. I save the numbers but give guys the benefit of the doubt except if several ladies post the same thing about him. There is almost always more to the story.
On 2021-06-14 10:08:51 Bbw Nadia said:
I was blasted for warning ladies of a no show. Every guy on this forum claims he always notifies the lady of cancellation. This guy I warned ladies about had been a no show twice without cancelling.
Some ladies have even retracted a warning if a guy sets things right. Some have even stood up for guys.
We are not idiots when it comes to warnings. I save the numbers but give guys the benefit of the doubt except if several ladies post the same thing about him. There is almost always more to the story.
I never done anything wrong. Perhaps just enquiry. I have asked the SP what she meant when she said she heard about me. Never said too much about it. She accepted and it was a lovely appointment. She could of easily declined because of one SPs view about me.
On 2021-06-14 10:18:02 Mr Easy D said:
On 2021-06-14 10:08:51
I never done anything wrong. Perhaps just enquiry. I have asked the SP what she meant when she said she heard about me. Never said too much about it. She accepted and it was a lovely appointment. She could of easily declined because of one SPs view about me.
Thats why I said we are not idiots when it comes to warnings. We don't just turn down bookings cos someone posted a guy is an arsehole. Could very well be it was not even posted on the ladies forum and just chatter among friends
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