Maybe i am the problem but have never cum with a BJ, But i feel i want a lady up to make a offer, if you think you can make me cum lets double the rate

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You just made the offer bra.

Can I say, think about what you like exactly.amy things have an impact.

If you like it soft and slow with lots of eye contact, even her just rubbing her tongue around the head starring up at you will make you bust but her trying to Hoover your cock fast and furious will just leave you frustrated and wanting to leave.

Same if you life it the other way around, you're never gonna cum all all those funny tongue tricks, shaft and balls licking and looks of seduction if you need your cock sucked hard and stuffed at the back of her throat.

The suction needs to be correct, too light and nothing gonna happen all day. Too hard and it's just gonna hurt.

My advice is instead of the challenge, book a chick that has positive reviews for an hour and test all all the different options. Let her try everything and make mental notes of what feels good to you and what doesn't.

Tell her to suck it harder and softer, deeper and just the head, deal throat and face fuck, lick the shaft, lick the balls skin up or down, lick althe sides of the mushroom Vs the tip Vs everywhere. Have her look at you while sucking you and also just concentrating on your cock like that's all she has and the rest of you don't exist. Keep your eyes closed and try to enjoy the feeling Vs looking at your cock being devoured and enjoy the view. Try with her kneeling down, or you lying on the bed and her between your legs looking up at you, in 69 position or a view with her facing down where you get a nice view of her ass and pussy or her lying back down at the edge of the bed and you face fuck her. Make mental notes of what feels best and then have her finish with that.

Good luck.

N4P

Above is probably the best advice as to how to find out what you really into that you will get ...

Every single lady out there has their own way of doing things. Every single one is self taught no one took them to "How to give a bj" classes. ;) Over many many bjs and maybe watching some porn and one or two clients giving her some directions she learned on her own what "works" and what works for her.

I always feel sad for ladies when i read reviews where guys state the bj was not great. Her way of doing it has dozens of other clients crabbing hold of blankets and kicking their legs straight to hold of ejaculation because for them it is better than great. Yet this guy said it was not great.. instead of saying her way of giving a bj is not really what he is into.

I am pretty sure it was just that her way normal way of doing it was not what he is into normally. If that same guy gave that lady some direction and told her he wants it a bit harder or softer etc she would have obliged and knew instantly how to change her technique to satisfy his need. I believe that most ladies out here want to have a satified client leave their door and most will go above and beyond to ensure the client is happy, but in order for that to happen clients need to be a bit more vocal about their likes and dislikes.

Women aint mind readers, despite the fact that your mothers always knowing everyyhing, has all men believing women can read minds;)