I'm exhausted by the constant requests for content and online services, despite not offering them. My daily life in the industry is affected by the pressure to conform to these expectations. I'm bombarded with requests, and when I politely decline, citing that I only offer in-person sessions, I'm met with outrageous reactions. "In this day and age" they say, as if I'm somehow behind the times. Others claim they won't book me if they can't see me online, or that my business will fail if I don't accept remote payments.

But I ask you, since when is content a requirement for in-person bookings? My photos are relevant and up-to-date, and I'm confident in my abilities. Why must I bend over backwards to offer remote payment options, when all I read about is how ladies in my industry get scammed out of payment? And let's be real, I don't want or need a paper trail between me and a client. It's not about being stubborn, it's about being safe and respectful of my own boundaries. Can't I just run my business the way I see fit, without being pressured into offering services I'm not comfortable with?

And all awhile some punters feeling frustrated with constantly having to dig through thousands of "content" posts to find:
in person ,one on one ,sensual treatments. Or sit with the disappointment that the service provider of their choice, only offer content.

Not to mention the nasty and sleazy context and language this "content" is requested in...

On 2025-02-17 07:02:04 Kylie said:
I'm exhausted by the constant requests for content and online services, despite not offering them. My daily life in the industry is affected by the pressure to conform to these expectations. I'm bombarded with requests, and when I politely decline, citing that I only offer in-person sessions, I'm met with outrageous reactions. "In this day and age" they say, as if I'm somehow behind the times. Others claim they won't book me if they can't see me online, or that my business will fail if I don't accept remote payments.

But I ask you, since when is content a requirement for in-person bookings? My photos are relevant and up-to-date, and I'm confident in my abilities. Why must I bend over backwards to offer remote payment options, when all I read about is how ladies in my industry get scammed out of payment? And let's be real, I don't want or need a paper trail between me and a client. It's not about being stubborn, it's about being safe and respectful of my own boundaries. Can't I just run my business the way I see fit, without being pressured into offering services I'm not comfortable with?

And all awhile some punters feeling frustrated with constantly having to dig through thousands of "content" posts to find:
in person ,one on one ,sensual treatments. Or sit with the disappointment that the service provider of their choice, only offer content.

I get also get many requests (bombarded would be a tad hyperbolic) for a service I do not offer. Greek. Despite others offering it, and advertising it- I feel absolutely no "pressure" to offer a service that falls outside my boundaries.

Each to their own and I wish all the happiness, safety and success to the other SP's. I would never dream of telling others how to market themselves (especially in this "day and age"), but I just stick firm to the boundaries and values I hold dear.

Good luck Kylie and may your day be absolutely stellar! xxx

@Kylie, it's to be expected to receive enquiries about content, given that lots of ladies sell content. So don't get too worked up about that. What I don't agree with are the guys questioning your choice for not selling content or trying to pressure you to do so. However, I can assure you these guys are in the minority and actually not the people that will follow through with bookings. Don't overthink it or get worked up about it, respectful clients will not pressure any lady into selling content. Unfortunately the nature of the business is that ladies have to endure requests or communication that is unacceptable, and you just have to grow thick skin because it's not going to go away.

Thank you both...
@Candice Lumi &
@Lowden.

You insight on the topic is helpful, it really makes a huge difference to receive a different perspective on things.

For what it is worth, I hope the serious & respectful punters connect with me for amazing and delightful sensual moments of true bliss...

Kylie,i so appreciate you not selling content - as it means one less advertiser flooding the promotions space with repeated content specials! :-)
I sooooo wish ESA would separate content and other specials!

Vrik. I agree 100%.

Its beyond irritating now...

Sorry Kylie about the forcing or disrespect issues. Remember theirs also people ladies and guys with a thing for voyeurism and exhibitionism most are respectful but that's their addiction unfortunately and sometimes they just go with that flow.