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Posted: 2019-10-12 10:42:17

Good morning everyone,

Guys if you make an appointment and dont pitch without doing the decency to message or phone, i will no longer be giving second chances anymore. Reason being we ,ladies, save the time slot for you only for you to not come and we lose out on other appointments. I do understand that things do happen unexpectedly but please do the decent thing and send out a quick text saying unable to make it. I know some ladies have a cancellation fee as where i dont but will be considering it if continues to happen. Im not sure how the other ladies feel about this.

Thank you
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Aria

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Posted: 2019-10-12 11:30:16

I Agree. We are not going to be angry. However when you gents don't pitch without a word it's rude. If you are able to call/sms or what's app for your appointment you should be able to do the same for canceling.
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Posted: 2019-10-12 11:40:47

True dear imagine someone waking you up at 5:30 am in the morning to get ready for him and he just go quiet and doesn't pitch .lt hurts.Rather call and cancel the appointment .
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Posted: 2019-10-12 12:40:04

Aria, it is a really crap thing to do to someone. But also think of it this way, it means that he had absolutely no respect for you what so ever. So maybe you are the one who actually scored with him not showing up.

That is how I try and see it when a lady on this site does something similar to me. And it happens a lot. So it is a problem that both the ladies and clients share.

PS. He totally missed out, his loss ;-)
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Posted: 2019-10-12 12:49:55
Edited: 2019-10-12 12:50:21

List his number on the ladies forum. He will probably do this to someone else.

FUKKIT ...these no shows take up time slots and in some cases has a cascading effect for some guaranteed visits.
On the flip side...you call your first choice SP..she tells you she just took a booking for that time slot...then make arrangements with plan B, and confirm the booking...you get a text/call from SP "A"...that time slot is available...the other arsehole did not pitch...now you end up pomping plan B, thinking of plan A...LOL
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Posted: 2019-10-12 13:25:49

I use to wait when they do that. Now if they are 10 min late without letting me know and and there is a legit reason I cancel and move on to the guy that actually wants to come. I also made my status that I will give you one chance. If you mess it up I will not give you a second chance. For the guys wanting to say something bad about this I am only talking about the guy that tells you everyday today I am coming to see you or please give me the special for today and then have not showed up a few times. Dont take the disrespect anymore.
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Posted: 2019-10-12 13:35:55

no show
no message to cancel..

my policy is simple block and a warning on the ladies forum, each and everytime.
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Posted: 2019-10-12 13:46:47

I don't give guys a 2nd chance to steal from me. In effect thats what a no-show does. I am robbed of another client's income.
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Posted: 2019-10-12 14:37:20

On 2019-10-12 13:46:47 Bbw Nadia said:
I don't give guys a 2nd chance to steal from me. In effect thats what a no-show does. I am robbed of another client's income.



That is so true..it is thievery on a totally different scale..

In previous week I had said no to two potential clients that wanted a specific time slot. Because I was waiting for a client that made appointment day before for that time slot and confirmed early the morning that he is still coming. Only for him to not show or even send a text or call to cancel.. ( I always wonder did they end up in a accident maybe or get sick... Foolishly trying to excuse their bad manners) only to be called again by same guy the day after with a * can I see you now I couldn't make it yesterday but have time now."

Kindly told him that I work on appointments and can't accommodate him as I was in fact waiting for a client. He then proceeded to tell me "you don't have to be like that, I will be in and out in 15 minutes. Can't you move other client for 20 minutes later"

Told him no. And that I have to go my phone is ringing ( which was a lie).. As I was about to totally loose my cool.. I have never come across such a selfish arrogant guy ever before. Since then I have blocked his number. I really don't want him to ever contact me again.

To those guys that make the effort and call to cancel thank you. Because of one such gentleman yesterday that cancelled because his wife finished at doctors long before he hoped she would, I have managed to accommodate another client and to fill the time slot that was allocated to him.

I will never charge cancelation fees even when you at my door already and want to leave. I have never been comfortable with that idea. But am most certainly not gonna be putting up with selfish arrogance like the guy mentioned above.





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Posted: 2019-10-12 15:19:07

Thank you everyone for the replies and advice....I also am not comfortable with charging someone cancellation fees but yesterday i had 4 people make appointments to which none of them pitched and only one of them had the decency to let me know he's unable to make it due to an unexpected errand for work. I was grateful for that. Then another one messaged me a couple hours later saying he would like to come through now and still ran an hour late. I was extremely annoyed and saved his name under "Time waster" on my phone.

I haven't been in the industry very long or on the site , but even in the short period of time i have met a lot of good , decent men to which is a pleasure to accomodate...

There's just that small percentage of men on here that i will not see ever again as it relates to this topic as well as trying to push my boundries i have set.


Kind regards
Aria

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