I'm just curious, as to with all the random topics regarding this how many girls offer without, and who only does with.... And punters the same. I personally prefer a bj without but am neurotic about cleanliness and health so will only do with a wrapper. I even keep a skin thin wrapper for BJ's, and am extra safe for full on. Is this normal or am I overly pedantic, and then is that even wrong in the world of STDs we live in today.?