In another post I lightly referred to this, but now it grabbed my attention.

Would it be possible to make an appointment, but we meet at the local Mall to go watch a movie together? Get popcorn, sit down, maybe close to each other, maybe holding hands (something I really, really miss since my wife passed away), then afterwards say goodbye and that is it.

While it might not sounds like something the majority of punters here would be into, I know I would be interested in something like this.

Also, it seems lot of ladies do not really travel, or if they do it is with some effort. I suppose it is also too close to a proper date, maybe that will also be a problem.

And yes, how sad to ask here for something like that, so no need to dwell on that, thank you.

So I am asking it here in the forums first to see if it is a viable option, before starting to phone all the ladies in the area.

Buddy wow i have got cold shivers reading this.we always take things for granted until the little things are gone I applaud you for posting this and I bet my ass that there are ladies that will respond good luck.

On 2019-09-01 20:43:42 PurpleCabbageMon said:
In another post I lightly referred to this, but now it grabbed my attention.

Would it be possible to make an appointment, but we meet at the local Mall to go watch a movie together? Get popcorn, sit down, maybe close to each other, maybe holding hands (something I really, really miss since my wife passed away), then afterwards say goodbye and that is it.

While it might not sounds like something the majority of punters here would be into, I know I would be interested in something like this.

Also, it seems lot of ladies do not really travel, or if they do it is with some effort. I suppose it is also too close to a proper date, maybe that will also be a problem.

And yes, how sad to ask here for something like that, so no need to dwell on that, thank you.

So I am asking it here in the forums first to see if it is a viable option, before starting to phone all the ladies in the area.

I offer this, have no problem with travelling and meeting up. I have many friends I met in the industry who I often see for dinner or a few drinks. It falls within the 'escorting' part of what we do and a breath of fresh air compared to the norm of what's usually expected of us!

If race is not an issue l do dinners often,relax and converse after...sometimes a movie,dinner,good company and share a good laugh can go a long way,and sometimes its all we need in a certain time and space...

On 2019-09-01 21:05:14 Veronica Franco said:
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I offer this, have no problem with travelling and meeting up. I have many friends I met in the industry who I often see for dinner or a few drinks. It falls within the 'escorting' part of what we do and a breath of fresh air compared to the norm of what's usually expected of us!

There used to be a statement that these services are for companionship only, anything else is between consenting adults, something like that.

Seems very few people are interested in the companion part, but I bet I am not the only one who's looking for that. It also seems very few ladies are open to such a thing, maybe because it is unusual. I once phoned someone and asked if she would be willing to spent the day with me at an airshow, the reply was short of rude. Perhaps she doesn't like aircraft. After that I was scared to ask something unusual again.

If you're looking for a girl to spend time with without financial compensation then buddy you're definitely looking on the wrong site.
There are a few girls that offer 'date night' as part of their services at a reduced rate.
But again, this is their livelihood, so don't expect them to 'hang out' with you.
Phoning one girl and been rejected doesn't mean it's the norm. Phone a few girls and im sure there are a few that are willing.
Unfortunately some have family commitments and are not prepared to work after hours. Security is also an issue.

I know Electra in waterkloof ridge offers date night. But like most girls, they need to feel very comfortable with you before they put themselves in a vulnerable situation.

Disclaimer, she has an active profile.

lam willing to offer my services if l happen to be in your area .The real date experience you could get from your lover .no rush and great company .you can pm me if you are interested in a tall sexy black babe

On 2019-09-01 21:59:19 PurpleCabbageMon said:


There used to be a statement that these services are for companionship only, anything else is between consenting adults, something like that.

Seems very few people are interested in the companion part, but I bet I am not the only one who's looking for that. It also seems very few ladies are open to such a thing, maybe because it is unusual. I once phoned someone and asked if she would be willing to spent the day with me at an airshow, the reply was short of rude. Perhaps she doesn't like aircraft. After that I was scared to ask something unusual again.

Actually, it should be something we all offer if we are to call ourselves 'escorts'. But we are actually prostitutes if all we offer is sex. It's a legal loophole aswell because it's illegal to be a prostitute but you can register as an escort at SARS and even pay tax because it's not illegal!

escort

accompany (someone or something) somewhere as an escort.
"he escorted her back to her hotel"
synonyms: conduct, accompany, guide, convoy, lead, usher, shepherd, take, direct, steer

I am more interested in people then sex, so it suits me just fine! Sex without connection is meaningless and causes most to become soulless and cold in this industry! That's how I see it at least and I struggle with it everyday!

On 2019-09-01 22:15:42 Panty_Dropper said:
If you're looking for a girl to spend time with without financial compensation then buddy you're definitely looking on the wrong site....

I am not looking for a freebie. I understand I will have to compensate for their time, so that is not the issue.

I basically want a normal appointment, except instead of knocking boots, we go to a movie. Compensation should be calculated according to the time spent.

For now, I'm just feeling out whether it will be possible. I suppose it is risky to meet a stranger, but we meet in a public place, surrounded by people until we leave.

The alternative would have been to phone each lady on the site and ask personally, it will take time. This way I have an indication on the general response and already a few offers.

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That may not necessarily be true. I can only speak for myself, but the only reason I don't book ladies for more 'dates' like you describe is the expense. Dinner + movie + drinks + hourly fee. I just can't afford it. But I'd love to meet some of these ladies for a movie/ dinner/ some hand holding without the pressure of getting physical. Unfortunately an hour in the bedroom works out cheaper than an hour at the pub.