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Advice
Posted: 2019-03-19 21:46:22
People people.
Ex-colleague wants me bad.
She's hot but history of serious depression currently under control with decent meds.
I'm married and don't want to jeopardise my family.
I know the advice is to run - I've seen it touted enough on these pages - and believe me I'm trying.
Nothing's happened between us but she's just super persistent - trying to have coffee, after work drinks etc.
How do I end something that hasn't begun?
Ex-colleague wants me bad.
She's hot but history of serious depression currently under control with decent meds.
I'm married and don't want to jeopardise my family.
I know the advice is to run - I've seen it touted enough on these pages - and believe me I'm trying.
Nothing's happened between us but she's just super persistent - trying to have coffee, after work drinks etc.
How do I end something that hasn't begun?
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Re: Advice
Posted: 2019-03-19 22:04:05
By not starting anythin boss, lol!
Damn I'm envious of you maaders who gots women throwing themselves at you!
Since you are already a punter, tell her to take an ad out on ESA so you can book her then. Family no longer jeopardized, problem solved.
On 2019-03-19 21:46:22 Honorable Member said:
How do I end something that hasn't begun?
By not starting anythin boss, lol!
Damn I'm envious of you maaders who gots women throwing themselves at you!
Since you are already a punter, tell her to take an ad out on ESA so you can book her then. Family no longer jeopardized, problem solved.
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Re: Advice
Posted: 2019-03-19 22:06:32
You already know the answer HM. Otherwise you would already be having those drinks...
Stay away
Stay away
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Re: Advice
Posted: 2019-03-19 22:07:27
Wait a minute, you said ex-colleauge. So she's working at a different company? You ever asking why she wants coffee or drinks?
Ask her straight up if she wants the dick. And if she says yes, give her the dick. But she must pay for the hotel room.
Ask her straight up if she wants the dick. And if she says yes, give her the dick. But she must pay for the hotel room.
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Re: Advice
Posted: 2019-03-19 22:22:05
Stock standard reply
If you have to ask the question, you know the answer
On 2019-03-19 21:46:22 Honorable Member said:
People people.
Ex-colleague wants me bad.
She's hot but history of serious depression currently under control with decent meds.
I'm married and don't want to jeopardise my family.
I know the advice is to run - I've seen it touted enough on these pages - and believe me I'm trying.
Nothing's happened between us but she's just super persistent - trying to have coffee, after work drinks etc.
How do I end something that hasn't begun?
Stock standard reply
If you have to ask the question, you know the answer
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Re: Advice
Posted: 2019-03-19 22:22:43
Yeah yeah.... all the emotions and baggage n stuff...or....just refer her to me!
There now, problem sorted !
There now, problem sorted !
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Re: Advice
Posted: 2019-03-19 23:00:58
History of serious depression? Take it from me...using her for sex will probably mess with her mind and possibly push her over the edge. She will then be a loose cannon
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Re: Advice
Posted: 2019-03-19 23:00:59
Edited: 2019-03-19 23:01:55
Edited: 2019-03-19 23:01:55
History of serious depression? Take it from me...using her for sex will probably mess with her mind and possibly push her over the edge. She will then be a loose cannon and you don't know what she's capable of if you have a family that's more important than her.
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Re: Advice
Posted: 2019-03-19 23:16:19
Veronica is right!!
But you're still gonna fall. Blame your dick when you cry.
But you're still gonna fall. Blame your dick when you cry.
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Re: Advice
Posted: 2019-03-20 05:08:10
Take it from VF. Run
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