To the gents:

What to do? when a wg you've seen more than twice, and she's become way up there on your list, suddenly mentions she will be kicked out of her private rent home and her child will have no food.

How do you know it's real? How do you respond? How do you say no?

Man dont be gullible...don't get involved, it's just sex

Change your phone number , move on

On 2019-05-13 10:07:27 kobusv said:
To the gents:

What to do? when a wg you've seen more than twice, and she's become way up there on your list, suddenly mentions she will be kicked out of her private rent home and her child will have no food.



How do you know it's real? How do you respond? How do you say no?

Hmmmmm tough one lets hear what the ladies have to say about it ..

"Hmmmmm tough one lets hear what the ladies have to say about it ..[/QUOTE]

I'm to proud to ask for that kind of help from a client... I'd rather try to barter if it comes to the push and I've got nowhere to go, but it's not our clients responsibility to take care or getting involved in our shit... If you really wanted to help, you wouldn't need advice from the forum ... if it's not coming straight from the heart, then don't help... At the end of the day... It's only sex...

Hey Kobusv...maybe your comment on this thread gave the lady some ideas.
www.esa.co.za/forum/thread.php

Need to be careful of what you wish for!...or post here...just saying.

Pretty much wat Paige said.

If you REALLY want to help..and youre able to...Do it. Yes..chances are youll be a sucker...but thats life.

If youre not sure...rather not help.

This is how we learn...by doing a good thing and get burned OR REALLY help someone.

I think there are certain things that should be between clients and SPs. I'm not saying I condone ladies asking for help but she might be really desperate for help and has no one to turn to but the client she is/was with.
To now come on the forum and blab about her dilemma is just wrong on all levels. What if the lady is active on the forum and she reads this?
There should be a modus operandi where certain things are just kept private and off the forum.
Not all laundry has to aired in public.
Give the poor SP a break. There is a little child at stake here!

On 2019-05-13 11:04:52 semensquirter said:
Hey Kobusv...maybe your comment on this thread gave the lady some ideas.
www.esa.co.za/forum/thread.php

Need to be careful of what you wish for!...or post here...just saying.

I totally agree with you!!!

As others said. There was once a lasy I vissit regularly. Times when bussines was quiet she strugle, I help her and in returned I get net session or 2 free, depends on the amount.
But its totaly up to you because there is those who not so honest.