No emotions involved please

But when do Men grow up??and be ready for commitment??

Me just asking hahahahaha

On 2019-05-25 14:41:26 Miss Barbie Doll said:
No emotions involved please

But when do Men grow up??and be ready for commitment??

Me just asking hahahahaha

Define growing up please

If I could I would just stay like this till the end but that not up to me so I would get married and raise kids.

When they are ready! Every man is different. Some are ready earlier then others! This cannot be discussed in a general manner because that would be assuming that every man has the same life experiences and thought patterns!

Never. We like variety. Marriage is never a man's idea.

On 2019-05-25 14:44:04 Tegwane said:
On 2019-05-25 14:41:26

Define growing up please

Will pm you,maybe I posted out of emotions myself:(hahahaha

On 2019-05-25 14:49:24 siya2005 said:
If I could I would just stay like this till the end but that not up to me so I would get married and raise kids.

But it's always good to let the next person know to know how you feel right??

On 2019-05-25 14:49:33 Veronica Franco said:
When they are ready! Every man is different. Some are ready earlier then others! This cannot be discussed in a general manner because that would be assuming that every man has the same life experiences and thought patterns!

Thank you so much for the advice,and all the explanation. Love you beautiful

That is a fine query and one that I believe needs to be asked at the early stages of catching feelings. At that stage both people need to ensure that they are on the same page when it comes to their interpretation of the words 'grown up' and 'commitment' as they tend to be understood differently from person to person.

Questions such as this when asked early on, are helpful at clarifying what is required from a person and also whether the person is actually capable of giving that. We then have a better chance of making an informed decision as to whether to pursue the relationship.

If however, we catch the proverbial feelings and pursue a long term relationship before such questions have been addressed or if they are answered in such a way that is not satisfying...then both are leaving it to fate to decide if they are heading in the same direction.

"When do Men grow up??and be ready for commitment??"

Oh dear heavens above. Do you really have the time to sit down and have this conversation?

Congrats to Ms Franco for distilling the essence of the answer in to a paragraph. But by #$@& the longform is going to take more than a few bottles to get through.