It seems to me that compliments on this forum dont work. If i was rude and nasty oh boy oh boy I would be paid attention to.

I have nothing further to say and will refrain from any further compliments.

Have an awesome week.

Mia

sad but true that bad news sells more newspapers ;(

doesnt mean we should stop looking for and creating good news please.

note to myself: give more compliments!


It took me a while to get my head around the fact that there are (at least should be) no expectation of exclusuvity. just as ladies see multiple gents, we too should celebrate variety. as such we should not think we offend a lady X if we were to compliment lady Y.

Boobs is a good example here. he seems to be getting around yet all loves him to the extent that he was nominated for the social award :)

While "our" ladies apear to be self confident i have picked up many an undercurrent of self doubt/sensitivity. just like all humans they too have a need for words of appreciation and reassurance of their respective reasons to fame and celebration. You for one Mia have a very very gentle soul which i find especially easy to connect with and relax around. no pressure, just acceptance and warmth of heart. dont ever forget that!

Thanks Ystervark.

Trust me Mia, being nasty is nothing to worry about. Guys feel more intimidated to visit, although it might get more airtime on the forum! Negative attention on this forum is not what brings in clients unless you're a new forum face! I get away with it, so to speak, because my regular clients know where I'm coming from. Clients that don't know me stay away or it takes them ages to build up the courage because I'm intimidating!

You carry on doing you! It's what built your name up! It's not about compliments either. Just be yourself!

It's not easy taking the bad-mouthing that comes your way either. I've grown a thick skin, but I've seen other ladies break down because the first thing others go for is your weight, looks and age!

On 2019-05-20 10:15:09 Mia ( The Original ) said:
It seems to me that compliments on this forum dont work. If i was rude and nasty oh boy oh boy I would be paid attention to.

I have nothing further to say and will refrain from any further compliments.

Have an awesome week.

Mia

Hi Sexy Mia. Don't kno what got to you but all I can say is don't compromise yourself, just dish out compliments and positivity as you see fit. Spread the love (amongst other things)

On 2019-05-20 11:39:16 Veronica Franco said:
Trust me Mia, being nasty is nothing to worry about. Guys feel more intimidated to visit, although it might get more airtime on the forum! Negative attention on this forum is not what brings in clients unless you're a new forum face! I get away with it, so to speak, because my regular clients know where I'm coming from. Clients that don't know me stay away or it takes them ages to build up the courage because I'm intimidating!

You carry on doing you! It's what built your name up! It's not about compliments either. Just be yourself!

It's not easy taking the bad-mouthing that comes your way either. I've grown a thick skin, but I've seen other ladies break down because the first thing others go for is your weight, looks and age!

Thank you Ms Veronica Franco. I appreciate your advice.

And it is not a once off. In the past few weeks whatever I say is ignored.

On 2019-05-20 13:21:14 Mia ( The Original ) said:
And it is not a once off. In the past few weeks whatever I say is ignored.

The forum has been very quiet as well as business for all of us babe. Trust me, people see you. I get ignored a lot too, but it doesn't phase me! It's only a forum babe! I know that it can be upsetting and you might feel like you're invisible, but you are not! I can't tell you why, but it does happen.

Babes I know how you feel,and it breaks my heart seeing you likes this.but please do not let anyone break you down,they are not worth it.

Just stand up and do what you do best:)love you lots

This forum does have the ability to break girls down! One minute you're miss popularity, flying high on all the attention and the next day you are nobody as the new girls or trouble makers get attention! Girls take this forum to seriously. It's a tool for marketing but by no means proof of your value! I go about things on my own. It's more a way of conveying my frustration, boredom alleviation or playing the fool. Nothing more! It is no indication of my life or business!