Say you see an outfit that is around R2800, and the girl you see is a regular girl. You want to buy it for one of your mutual fantasies. But it's very expensive and you have to add then to her rates as well
Is it ok to ask if she can trade it for her services plus a bit of extra cash or half price. If she likes. Esp if she says she can use for other clients later or photo shoots.
Obviously if she says no it's your choice to go through with buying or not .
I have two reasons, one is if I bought it then would mean one for me and one for her for my partner threesome surprise so adds up to 5600. Plus I would probably only rarely use the outfit after, where as she would use more.
Second I don't want to come off cheap as it is a gift kind of thing too .
But spending that amount on a gift where I know others after are going to enjoy too kind of puts me off spending that amount for just a gift.
Perfume, or wine or such is a bit more of an option then if I really like the girl. That or a lingerie set that's half that price.
I just prefer the latex idea than lace lingerie that almost plain most of the time.
Unless someone can direct me to a place I can get cheaper latex outfits.
This is outfit in question.
www.matildas.co.za/collections/fantasy-and-dress-up/products/guilty-pleasure-red-sergeant-costume
Based on what it would cost me to purchase the item, I would let her know the price ( if she also likes the outfit ), tell her that it's for her to wear & keep, and it's up to her how much she will ask for a session. If it's a reasonable rate she quotes me, I would have no problem spoiling her.
A lady with a latex/pvc underbust corset & thigh high fetish boots.... I digress... I'm sorry.
If she wouldn't give a slight discount on rates what would you do?
Again not looking for a cheapie but they not cheap ( the outfits) and I would really like to spoil my partner with a surprise dress up session and he has liked most outfits he's seen me show him and ask what he thinks. The girl on question said she did too. When I asked if could trade for a session ( the outfit almost costs double her rate) or a discount of sorts. And if she really didn't like that it's fine I would just pay her for session and think about said outfit.
Anyways she just "ghosted" me after so to speak. Nd I did offer to pay for session anyways.
Now she was a really great girl and don't know anymore since she did that to contact for a couple session again or just leave it.
I also found out over holiday season she lied about a few things. Ie. She didn't work for someone anymore etc. But she does ( I found out through the net, aswell as through her "ex" boss)
She offered to be friends, and we really clicked I thought. But I said then keep play professional, payment and no discount. If she doesn't want that she just stays a playmate not any form of friendship.
So now to try book her again or not I dono. As all that pute off.
On 2019-01-06 16:48:43 playkinky said:
@lookingforfun29,
If she wouldn't give a slight discount on rates what would you do?
If she was willing to offer a discount and it was something I really wanted to, I would consider it.
My way of thinking ( and some may not agree with this ) but say her rate is R1500p/h, and I book 2 hours and buy an expensive outfit she & I both like for R2500 as a trade for services, and I give her a R800 tip, she still keeps the outfit, and for all I know, she goes and buys that outfit or something similar not long after.
By no means are you trying to sound cheap by offering a outfit as part of payment for a session, as a proper latex outfit is very expensive. If it were me, I would send her a final offer of what I could bring & pay ( a portion of her fee ) to the session, it's up to her to decide if she feels that it's a fair deal or not. If she declines your offer, it's unfortunate, but then continue to look for someone who can assist.
On 2019-01-06 17:16:47 lookingforfun29 said:
On 2019-01-06 16:48:43 playkinky said: @lookingforfun29,
If she wouldn't give a slight discount on rates what would you do?
If she was willing to offer a discount and it was something I really wanted to, I would consider it.
My way of thinking ( and some may not agree with this ) but say her rate is R1500p/h, and I book 2 hours and buy an expensive outfit she & I both like for R2500 as a trade for services, and I give her a R800 tip, she still keeps the outfit, and for all I know, she goes and buys that outfit or something similar not long after.
By no means are you trying to sound cheap by offering a outfit as part of payment for a session, as a proper latex outfit is very expensive. If it were me, I would send her a final offer of what I could bring & pay ( a portion of her fee ) to the session, it's up to her to decide if she feels that it's a fair deal or not. If she declines your offer, it's unfortunate, but then continue to look for someone who can assist.
Ye her normal rate is R1500+ depending.
So I was looking at maybe buying outfit, book 90 Mins and pay say additional 800-1200 max.
On 2019-01-06 19:12:31 Mynx said:
If she doesn't want to...I will. Kisses, Mynx
Oh you saucy mynx you ;-)
Grrrr !
www.trishaslingerie.co.za/collections/leather-vinyl/products/r7859
On 2019-01-06 22:24:43 latexmale said:
Maybe not 100% the same, but the price is muuuuch better
www.trishaslingerie.co.za/collections/leather-vinyl/products/r7859
This outfit so hot!
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