So Malema made the statement that "Africans and Indians do not marry each other" which got me thinking ?
Do the Black beauties in Purple land have the same experience ? Do you get Indian clients ?
I don't want this thread to disintegrate into a racial war but just curious about the integration of Black and Indian when it comes to sex.

"Having sex" is an activity very rarely taking place between married people, that is one of the reasons why so many married guys are practising "punting".

On 2018-06-18 15:05:23 jjsoap said:
"Having sex" is an activity very rarely taking place between married people, that is one of the reasons why so many married guys are practising "punting".

So the question is does "punting" take place ?

I get Indian clients, they are very nice and love massages

and the sex happens as with everybody else, I don't get people with racial issues

Malema is an ignorant rascist idiot who loves to spread hate speech and wants to splinter and wound our society further thats still healing from Apartheid. I know plenty Indians with black family members. even Indians with black ancestry along the lines going back to the early labourers brought into SA back in the 1860s. An aunt of mine who is Indian married a black Sotho guy, and have beautiful children together. And yes, im Indian and black wgs, I love em. PS: I Love and respect all women, honestly my love dont discriminate

This is purely anecdotal but:

I have a tinder profile, and on each trip out to SA I average about 70 - 100 matches. Vast majority will be black (or African in SA parlance), and maybe 10% white and coloured each. Not one Indian. Ever.

My girlfriend, who is South African and black does get matches from Indian men, but all, in her experience, are looking for sex.

I think there's a distinction between meaningful relationships and discrete sex. Interesting perspective, though, Norwegian. Perhaps I should explore SA more :).

Wow ghost you have a gf whose also on tinder and both of you are open about it....nice

Yeah. Tried monogamy. Failed. Tried marriage too. Failed. Now I'm all about being happy. And making others happy.

I would agree with Ghostwrita 100% on the distinction between discreet and meaningful because that what makes the difference. Working in the space around listed companies in Johannesburg and the "lovely places" that successful people go out to, I have never seen a successful Indian and Black married couple and I would go as far as to say that where the family of the Indian is affluent it will be looked down upon excluding families that have "struggle credentials / activity" in their history. This could be based on the ethnicity of the Indian person or where on the cast they believe themselves to be. (Its such an unfair thing to do)

Equally you can find a similar thing with Afrikaans people and blacks in Tshwane, I live in Centurion and over the years that I have been "in the game" I discovered from the mouths of the black ladies that the majority of their clients are white, at the now deceased News Caf in Jean I had a girl tell me that I had been the first black client she had all month long (close to month end). To every punter I have spoken to of Caucasian persuasion, they have gone as far as being with Asian, coloured girls for the record but never to the final shade of brown.

These are these taboo questions which are informed by other things and that is what we can't be honest about. I don't like Julius, he feels like a cheese grater on my face at times closing opportunities for people to start speaking to one another not at each other. Julius could be struggling to articulate something when he said that.

Like the commonly spread theory that Muslim men don't drink, I have travelled Gauteng in the dark for a long time to say it needs to be shattered. Across all the platforms we cruise for our pleasures you will see how skewed the application/use of the ROAR disclaimer is or the regret not notice, discreet is not even a possibility for certain users.

In the words of Ghost, discreet and meaning...what differentiates between you practicing on all grounds and only having official games at particular facilities only when the former has all the "technical requirements to engage"?