I know there already is topic about Rewarding for going the extra mile. Without wanting to hijack/takeaway from that interesting post...so I created this to ask, out of interest, exactly what would be considered as 'going the extra mile'?

Are you keen to share one or two things that happpened for you that constitutes 'going the extra mile'?

For me, lady I visited decided to extend our time just because she was enjoying the session so much. Another agreed to seeing me way before she her hours of operation (and I tipped accordingly).

But is this sort of sacrifice enough to call it "going the extra mile" or is it just exceptional customer service?

Keen to hear your thoughts/better still, Your examples or experiences....

SP gave a HE because she has seen me a lot at the spa & I looked decent enough to not be the type to report her LoL (HEs not allowed at their place)! Well ended up costing me a fortune but what the hack - HE'd by a stunner!

A popular MG, gave me FH at no xtra charge. I was so special to her! I thought that meant that she was "going the xtra mile for me" LoL.

Only to discover later on what "going the xtra mile for me" really meant. She now refuses to see me, without coming clear on what i have done wrong. Now really "going the xtra mile for me" to make sure i cannot get a booking with her! Priceless! :-)))

So the meaning of going the extra mile .......

Let's start with what in my mind it is not:

It is not about expecting extras
It is not about the ladies discounting their fees
It is not about them doing something they are not comfortable with


For me it is about the professionalism and the service the lady gives. So it is about:

Delivering what you confirmed over the phone you offer
Telephone manners
If you can if possible acknowledge that I tried to contact you
Enjoying what you do and make me feel like the most importnt person during the time we are together
Friendliness and making me feel at home and relaxed
Not being mechanical and rushed
I sense very quickly when a lady is disconnected and it is just about taking my money
Not rushing my time with you. If I pay for an hour I expect an hour
Being sensual
Once we have confirmed a time then both parties should be respectful and honour the agreed time.
Being discreet
Privacy
Cleanliness

I think if you mix all of the above into one pot and you stir it you get going the extra mile

Thank you John B & Mxx for sharing.
Anyone else have stories or examples of experiencing "Going the Extra Mile"

Thank you John B & Mxx for sharing.
Anyone else have stories or examples of experiencing "Going the Extra Mile"?

I have low back problems and 2 of my regular clients offered me a "real" message with every booking... they still book me for FH... but I dont charge them for the time they spend on my massage... I hope they might see it as "the extra mile" or maybe Im just grateful to have them in my life. They defenitely go the extra mile for me...

@LBL, I fully agree!!! Although, I kind of expect that to be the standard service level across the board...however, I do know that this isn't the case at all.

@Ms Paige, thanks for sharing from a WG perspective. I didn't see it that way. by the way, most times that I'm with a MG, I always offer to give them a decent massage first, and provide them with a Sensual, if they up for it. Kind of my way of 'giving back', while I still pay for the time with her.

On 2018-05-28 16:00:15 Mxxx said:
A popular MG, gave me FH at no xtra charge. I was so special to her! I thought that meant that she was "going the xtra mile for me" LoL.

Only to discover later on what "going the xtra mile for me" really meant. She now refuses to see me, without coming clear on what i have done wrong. Now really "going the xtra mile for me" to make sure i cannot get a booking with her! Priceless! :-)))

Perhaps she anticipates you expecting a fuck instead of massage now for every session.
OR.
she has "feelings" for you and would rather not blurr any lines because she is a smart but simple woman who wants to keep her life simple.
OR.
She believes it's wrong to give some clients preferencial treatments and that being professional means that everyone can expect the same standard and type of service...
Or it's all of the above and you shouldn't have asked for FH from a MG...
Just maybe..
But who knows... Women's heads work in mysterious ways.

Hi there,
For me, I always find that if the client is someone I get along with and we have fun, I mostly give him a longer stay.

Girl's just wanna have FUN!

Xxx,
Megan.