Evening Purple World!

This specific topic had come creeping in my mind at every chance it gets and I wanted to share with the rest of you. Now this is something that I personally had ironed, folded and packed away. Locked away and threw the key into the river. Probarbly by now some fish had the pleasure of swallowing the key.

I particularly speak of such because of my 3sumphobia and endless requests that keep cropping up. I do not blame the ones that request such a service for me to be a part of, nor would blame the new/non members joining the purple world. But that I personally find myself exhausted from having to explain that I do no longer offer doubles, 3sums, couples, orgies, lesbian shows, swingers parties and so forth. Though I will not dispute the fact that I am still into gangbangs....*facepalm*

Now to the topic at hand. As I said earlier in my opening, I have locked all away and do not wish to go back simply because in the past I had witnessed a lot of risks, a few pleasures and I have had to see a lot of people having to sacrifice their time and beings for pleasure.


RISKS

Hygiene risks when your doubles' partner whom you trust decides to stab you in the back and prick holes on condom packs. Even to a point of pricking the whole set of condoms without your knowledge. Now in any instance that it bursts while you're busy fucking, the client will blame you for trying to trick him into spreading viruses, deliberate pregnancy attempts or even worse. Look this may seem or sound naive of me in saying this but if it is as much, as a carefully unnoticeable hole this is bound to occur. Condoms not disposed after a use of one pussy and smelly viginas are other perfect examples of doubles' risks.


PLEASURES

It may be dreams or fantasies of most men to have ladies all over him at once but does one really get satisfied? A wife/girlfriend or fiance who takes part in joining their partners, really feel ok with it all? I have witnessed the mostly insanely pleasures in the partners' eyes watching her man fuck another women. And you think to yourself is she going to start a fight, attempt to hurt me or just jump on the man to witness his infidelity first hand and get the pleasure out of it by throwing tantrums. Is one pleasured by going through all those horrible emotions even though you're offering/offered a service. Does your doubles' partner brew jealous intents because the man gives you more attention than her. Does he or she get the pleasure of watching you being devoured so lustfully. Is one willing to say yes to all because of PLEASURE be it a dangerous game or just business?


SACRIFICES

Is it really worth it for the payer to be a player? I have had the bad luck of ladies I had doubles with in the past of secretly "dating" their clients. Yes it is non of my business what she does with him but there was absolutely no reason for her to introduce me to him. When money is exchanged behind your back, for a deed only known by them. How much is she getting paid to play the lady pimp and how much is one willing to pay you for a job well done with no strings attached but be it strictly business? Now this sacrifice lies on the fact when the doubles' partner excuses herself out of the room to go and do something, the client will present large amounts of money to have sex with him without protection. Is it really worth the sacrifice for a few rands that make up 3 to 5 Zeros extra just to get paid? How sure is one that your doubles' partner is not sleeping with him without protection but offered him, you, as a sacrifice. How much does one value their life for the sake of money. Is it worth the sacrifice?

I felt that I should share this. And to be fair, everyone is welcome to comment with constructive criticism. Hence these are the most reasons why I don't cater such services mentioned above anymore. We are all risking our lives to live and better ourselves by offering each others bodies at one cost or another. But one should not make it an obligation whatsoever! A little bit of consideration and understanding can better our lives to have fun in peace, love and respect for each other.

Have a lovely evening!

Kimmylee first of all I want to thank you for sharing your experiences with us.

What an eye opener and really something to think about.

I have had the above requests and have always said no. Especially when there is a woman involved and you are having a sexual encounter with her husband.

Each to their own. I am not judgmental towards anybody. We all have our own fantasies and fetishes. Your way of explaining what your experiences were and the damages. I agree with you.

Have a great weekend.
Lady Sade

Kimmylee first of all I want to thank you for sharing your experiences with us.

What an eye opener and really something to think about.

I have had the above requests and have always said no. Especially when there is a woman involved and you are having a sexual encounter with her husband.

Each to their own. I am not judgmental towards anybody. We all have our own fantasies and fetishes. Your way of explaining what your experiences were and the damages. I agree with you.

Have a great weekend.
Lady Sade

Thank you Lady Sade for your input. I felt that it was time I shared my experiences to others who had probarbly been under the same spell at some point in their lives. This was mailny because I went to a partnership with a lady and some few ladies who had proven to be unworthy in one way or another. Yes I do not judge anybodys tastes as each one to their own. It is simply something that makes me think that how often do these kind of partnerships last. When trust has been violated, then turn a blind eye by simply giving the situation a benefit of a doubt keeps coming back into your life over and over and over again. To a point where it makes you sick to the core! And you'll prefer to stick to the norm and stay on the safe side.

Relocate to another venue, place or province. To try and get away from it all. Work on your own and have no partnership deals where money is concerned any longer. To safe guard your business and stay out of trouble even though you're not the offender. Jealous streaks that you earn more than the other, or made popular amongst your peers unknowingly. While hearts and minds brew evil intentions to sabotage ones life because you happen to be bestowed and lifted with integral professionalism.

Some partnerships last and some don't while others don't even take off to begin with. It's sad to be betrayed and I have had the opportunity today to put it all behind me and say it is all right!

And it was an honour to share and I'm certain that there are worst cases out there for both men and women. Some did not even live to tell the story!

Unfortunately these "problems" exist in other aspects of life like businesses, relationships,
family etc.

It is very damaging to your physical, spiritual and emotional being. Sometimes it feels like someone has ripped your heart out of your chest.

You sound like a strong woman Kimmylee.

I do not know you, but I have read some of your intersting posts.

I wish you all the best.

Close that door and keep it shut!

Have a great weekend.

Lots of love and hugs.
Lady Sade

Wow Kimmylee thanks for the insight into this side of the industry that us punters know exists but not really aware of the extremities. I can see how these experiences could cause one to lose some faith in others and desist from following such pursuits.
The interesting point for me is your still being open to a gangbang. This, coupled with your previously mentioned love of gay porn (not bringing up the beastiali stuff though), as well as your willingness to still carry out MMF threesomes, indicates one thing to me - that you are a full blown heterosexual person. There is no difference between your choices and my fantasies of FFM threesomes, lesbian porn which I love, and an all female gangbang although I'd need to be medicated to the hilt!! Heterosexual through and through - well at least that's my amateurish attempt at psychoanalysis.
Am looking forward to hooking up with you again - I may not be able to do the full gangbang for you but I can bring a couple of friends like Oliver and the Colonel and the three of us can go to town on you!!

On 2018-05-11 21:00:16 Lady Sade said:
Unfortunately these "problems" exist in other aspects of life like businesses, relationships,
family etc.

It is very damaging to your physical, spiritual and emotional being. Sometimes it feels like someone has ripped your heart out of your chest.

You sound like a strong woman Kimmylee.

I do not know you, but I have read some of your intersting posts.

I wish you all the best.

Close that door and keep it shut!

Have a great weekend.

Lots of love and hugs.
Lady Sade

Thank you my dear Lady Sade. Likewise I have also learned by reading your posts that you are good natured person. My hearts been ripped and sewn back again. It just gets better with time.

On 2018-05-12 06:58:39 jaykay96 said:
Wow Kimmylee thanks for the insight into this side of the industry that us punters know exists but not really aware of the extremities. I can see how these experiences could cause one to lose some faith in others and desist from following such pursuits.
The interesting point for me is your still being open to a gangbang. This, coupled with your previously mentioned love of gay porn (not bringing up the beastiali stuff though), as well as your willingness to still carry out MMF threesomes, indicates one thing to me - that you are a full blown heterosexual person. There is no difference between your choices and my fantasies of FFM threesomes, lesbian porn which I love, and an all female gangbang although I'd need to be medicated to the hilt!! Heterosexual through and through - well at least that's my amateurish attempt at psychoanalysis.
Am looking forward to hooking up with you again - I may not be able to do the full gangbang for you but I can bring a couple of friends like Oliver and the Colonel and the three of us can go to town on you!!

JayKay96....Bring all your friends that you can think of and lets have some gangbang fun if they'll take the plunge and won't feel scared to dominate KL or is it the other way around.....LMAO!

Thank you for your comment. Much appreciate it and we sure are due for fun! Been long and nana is screaming out your name.

Thanks for posting Kimmylee

I think your personal experiences are totally valid and I understand exactly why you would feel that way. I also think some of your extrapolation from your experience to a more general view of the world is entirely valid.

Most of the time there is some unpleasant drama or baggage that comes with the experience. At the same time (yes, you knew it was coming), there are some people who can have a great experience PROVIDED none of the parties behave in the way you describe.

I am not trying to convince you to try. Every session with you so far has been fantastic, so there was certainly nothing "missing". Your body, your mind, your choice!

@2old2 It seems like you and I read two different posts here. In my perspective Kimmylee is clearly saying she doesn't want to do the "doubles, 3sums, couples, orgies, lesbian shows, swingers parties and so forth" route any longer, is tired of repeatedly saying this and so the reason for her starting this thread.
I thought your post was very ironic. I know, I know, I know, you said "I am not trying to convince you to try" but that appears to be wallpapering over the thinly veiled attempt to get her to change her mind [QUOTE;1188235;2old2] ........ At the same time (yes, you knew it was coming), there are some people who can have a great experience PROVIDED none of the parties behave in the way you describe........[/QUOTE]??!!???!!
Are you then also of the same small minority of men who thinks he can turn a lesbian straight again?