Yes it happens both ways. We are human,
Nothing wrong with that.There is nothing really different...OR do you see her profession as something to frown about later?
Damn people fall in love anywhere ,anytime...even on Sinking Ships...Didn't you watch TITANIC?.
There's a fine line between LOVE and LUST...when you figure which of the two emotions you are feeling...then this will be a bit clearer...Good Luck.
It was alright and I enjoyed his massages but his idea of a happy ending for me was a bit too much work so I began to doubt the arrangement but we had an amicable 'friends with benefits' arrangement. I later found out from a mutual friend that he had a long term gf. It's one thing to be paid for a service but I didn't feel comfortable being the other woman like that. It left no room for growth. We amicably went our separate ways, I did not let him know I knew about the gf and just said I couldn't date someone while being a WG.
Fast forward a year later, I meet him at my new school and he is one of the instructors and his gf was there. To be discreet, I pretended not to know him. I thought things would be fine. It turns out he took the rejection from before quite badly. He started bullying me and harming me in the class, when I didn't leave after that, he told management and administration and everyone I was a WG. I was told to leave and not come back.
It was extremely devastating for me as I lost a sport and gym I loved, especially when I had always been friendly and discreet. But there were hard feelings on his side and it ended up costing me. I thought of going the legal route but after some of the disrespectful messages I received from the people he told... I didn't feel I could ever go back to that gym. To them I was not a woman but a piece of meat.
The catch 22 is that I had massaged some of the men in class previously at another venue and they were gentleman and happy to see me passionate about something. It took one bad apple who read more into a friendship than I did to really cause me great distress. Still, you live and learn.
On 2018-04-26 11:23:03 semensquirter said:
Why would you consider it a mistake?
Nothing wrong with that.There is nothing really different...OR do you see her profession as something to frown about later?
Damn people fall in love anywhere ,anytime...even on Sinking Ships...Didn't you watch TITANIC?.
There's a fine line between LOVE and LUST...when you figure which of the two emotions you are feeling...then this will be a bit clearer...Good Luck.
On 2018-04-26 12:32:09 Kitty said:
Awhile ago, a client and I agreed to an arrangement that we would swap massages. So there was no remuneration.
It was alright and I enjoyed his massages but his idea of a happy ending for me was a bit too much work so I began to doubt the arrangement but we had an amicable 'friends with benefits' arrangement. I later found out from a mutual friend that he had a long term gf. It's one thing to be paid for a service but I didn't feel comfortable being the other woman like that. It left no room for growth. We amicably went our separate ways, I did not let him know I knew about the gf and just said I couldn't date someone while being a WG.
Fast forward a year later, I meet him at my new school and he is one of the instructors and his gf was there. To be discreet, I pretended not to know him. I thought things would be fine. It turns out he took the rejection from before quite badly. He started bullying me and harming me in the class, when I didn't leave after that, he told management and administration and everyone I was a WG. I was told to leave and not come back.
It was extremely devastating for me as I lost a sport and gym I loved, especially when I had always been friendly and discreet. But there were hard feelings on his side and it ended up costing me. I thought of going the legal route but after some of the disrespectful messages I received from the people he told... I didn't feel I could ever go back to that gym. To them I was not a woman but a piece of meat.
The catch 22 is that I had massaged some of the men in class previously at another venue and they were gentleman and happy to see me passionate about something. It took one bad apple who read more into a friendship than I did to really cause me great distress. Still, you live and learn.
It can go very well or turn out like s####.
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