What do the girls think if we start a thread regarding different things we enjoy and how to get the most out of us sexually! Some guys just don't have a clue and we are often to embarrased or scared of hurting the guys feelings to say anything! So why not educate them on the forum!

No names or examples are to be used, just speaking generally!

Just a thought!

Regards, V

Hi V,
Great idea, why not run a training session on a Saturday,
'how to treat a woman' and 'mutiple orgasms' and 'female ejaculation' would be a great start.
Tantra and other material is freely available.
Your tuition will make the dudes better able to handle their women, is life only all about 'Spyker', or is there more to life?
Have a great evening, Cheers, Oliver

Brilliant idea Vee,

I am game !!!!

So here goes the first lesson, My clitoris is not a landing pad for a helicopter, I might have a landing strip {lol} but be gentle, soft, tender touching not slapping it, WTF is that supposed to do anyway?

Mwah
Arz

Arizona wrote 'be gentle, soft, tender touching not slapping it, WTF is that supposed to do anyway?'

Every time I watch a porno and see one girl slap another girl's clit (I watch a lot of lesbian porn, mea culpa... though I do see this mainly in American Studio [read: Blonde hair, HUGE fake boobs, fake fingernails & a recorded 'oooh','aaah' soundtrack] porn and not at all in classy European [read: beautiful and natural girls] porn) I look up at the heavens and ask myself 'Are we really supposed to believe that gets a girl off?' It has actually been a subject of debate amongst my friends. The general consensus from the females of my social group is that 'slapping the clit' will 'land you in shit'.

I really do applaud this thread. Now... how about starting a thread explaining to the girls that when you are with a guy that actually does know what he is doing (or at least, wants to learn), to let him pleasure you. I can not believe how many girls in this game actively dislike it when a punter tries to give *them* pleasure. It's like they are fine with doing the work, as long as they do not enjoy it. Which TOTALLY kills the experience, at least for me anyways.

I simply LOVE it when a girl starts giving me directions. As Banky Edwards says in Chasing Amy, when I am down on a girl 'You gotta handle it like CNN and the Weather Channel: constant updates.'

A little 'ooooh'; a little 'aaaah'; one or two 'oh yes, right there cowboy'; we definately need some 'softer, softer', 'harder, harder', 'slower, slower, 'faster, faster's; and I hate to do without 'Oh God, that feels so good, I need you inside me now!'.

You see, I (in particular) am pretty shitty when it comes to picking up the subtle clues girls give me to kind of nudge me in the right direction. If a girl walks up to me, looks me dead in the eye and says 'I want you to fuck me now', if she does not use my name, I am liable to ask 'Who? Him?'. So yeah, I am not great at even the obvious clues. So lets take clues out of the whole equation. Say what you want. Be clear. Pardon the pun, but don't pussyfoot around the subject. If a guy gets pissed and says 'Listen bitch, I am here for me, not you!'... well, then you know and you can stop taking his calls in the future (or continue to take them, and continue to see him and work on your taxes in your head while he ruts... your call).

But for the most part, I am hoping, that guys will really appreciate the lesson. Contrary to the adage, a dog is never to old to learn new tricks. In fact, this old dog awaits each encounter eagerly, hoping that the next one will teach him a new trick. Tricks are good. Knowledge is awesome. Experience is everything. Enjoyment is key. Mutual pleasure is assured.

This is a brilliant idea. U go girls.

PunterS.T... you've said it all and eloquently. Agree with you 99%. And yep, it really kills the experience and leaves me more frustrated when I end up with a cold fish in the sack.

But this dog is too old to learn new tricks, because I know them all. I can actually recall the WG from days gone past from whom I've learnt like an eager student... but for the past few years not a single WG/one-night-stand/fuck-buddy could teach me anything new... Example week before last (and I left a comment about it here) when I was at The Grand the one girl was so incredibly impressed with my attentiveness to her pleasure she gave me her personal cell number [and yes, the number worked :-)]

The main problem with some of the punters - and that is obvious from the dumb questions and experiences posted on the forum - is that they choose to be losers. And any woman, WG or not, just fucking hate losers.

Best advice to any oke who is starting out punting is to grow a set of balls, read a few books on how to pleasure a woman properly and then learn organically from experience. And remember never to treat WGs like shit, because karma is a bitch.

Firstly Punter, perfectly said.

I cannot speak for all the ladies out there, but I for one do expect the experience to be as pleasurable for me as it is for the client. When a girl start's to 'oooooh' and 'ahhhhh' like a porno, I am guessing u are way off base. If she thrusts her hips towards u. U r on the right track, when she pulls away, u r going nowhere slowly. (or quickly) Depends!! I do know that when I am orgasming I tend to go very quiet. Its like I have been winded, I cant talk! and just like every man has a different penis, every woman is different too... men r easier to please in the basic scheme of things, Woman are far more complex!!! We are not a species easy to understand. I hope this thread (thanx to Vee) wiil show us all men, and women alike how different we are and how different our needs are.

Here's hoping that we all learn and discover new things!!

Mwah

Arz

PS. Johan, Have u been to see me?

Gotto to get the legendary Robin and Blue to give comment on this thread too then...