Dear gents of the purple world.....

So we get up in the morning and get ready for our day at work just like everyone else. In the back of our minds we have worked out our budget and know what we need to do each day to be able to pay for everything. Because once again... we are just like every one else that pays bills at the end of the month...

You feel relieved as you already have one or two pre booked clients and unfortunately have to deny other clients a booking for that time as you will be busy with a session. Greatful because you can tick off another bill with the money coming in...

Time goes by and the client is 5min late..... another 10min go by... maybe it's traffic... another 5 min and by now you know that the client won't be coming in... time wasted where we could've book another client that phoned this morning... :(

So... life happens. Things change in your day.... And we know and understand this, but please if you pre book make a note somewhere or set a reminder on your phone under "stress relief session" or something;) It will be nice to get a sms or a phone call to say you won't be able to make it anymore...no need to explain why.... at least then we can take other clients in that time slot and the time won't be wasted.

I know this goes both ways as I've seen posts about clients being disappointed because of double bookings etc... let's all use common decency and consider the other person and just take time to send that sms or make that quick phone call.

Now with all of the formalities out of the way.... LET'S HAVE SOME FUN!;)

Xxxxx

Agree with you @Galaxy, it happened to me on Thursday.

Won't go into too much detail. However I was pm'd and asked about my availability

Got a call from him at 10:25 saying he is free for an appointment at 16:00

No confirmation during the day, and 16:00 came and went by, 16:15 I sent an sms to ask if he was running late

No reply to my sms, no pm nothing stating what happened, so there was no booking. I could of filled that 16:00 with someone else

Well it was not the first time something like this has happened to me, just as @Galaxy says please use common decency and let us know, we understand and won't hold it against you, unless it is a regular occurance lol

Yip, not cool at all when that happens.
What would a sms or whatsapp msg cost the punter just to let the lady know he won't be able to make it ?

Probably too much... :-/

On 2018-03-26 12:49:22 lookingforfun29 said:
Yip, not cool at all when that happens.
What would a sms or whatsapp msg cost the punter just to let the lady know he won't be able to make it ?

Probably too much... :-/

I'm even prepared to help him out with the R1 that it would cost to do that ;) lol

To me personally it is a lack of self respect from the punter side .. no matter what the reason ... it is also just good manners to phone the lady in time to cancel !!!

Insightful. Pity one cannot charge the client for canselation. It makes me so mad when people are so self centered and selfish to not even phone or SMS to cancel or to say sorry. You are not a client until you pay, before then you owe decency and respect to the service provider. I actually felt really bad for you ladies now, for losing money by these idiots. Hope you get to make up for lost time.

Thats not on. If i know i cant get to an appointment i call in advance to cancel. You do it for everyonne else, doctor,lawyer, mechanic,etc. So why disrespect a lady whose business works on appointment

On 2018-03-26 12:58:45 BOOBS53 said:
To me personally it is a lack of self respect from the punter side .. no matter what the reason ... it is also just good manners to phone the lady in time to cancel !!!

Do Agree with you BOOBS53
And it will only take 3min to call and cancel

Ps:Shella

Agree 100% such a waste of time. Not nice and when you call them to confirm and they cut your call not on.

Galaxy thank you for taking the time to put into words what has been on my mind. I fully understand clients have also had many issues with ladies and the common decency and respect goes both ways. I appreciate how you explained how you start your day with your target in mind and ticking off another expense if a booking is made, as I too do this. I do wish the gents read your post and understand a bit better the situation we are in.
If I may also add the following: on Friday I received a message along the lines of....I'm not really looking for massage just some fun....I asked what he had in mind. He replied "I want to watch porn on your TV while you jerk me off"
I politely told him I don't offer the service he's looking for. He asked what "fun" service I could offer and I made a suggestion which he replied to "deal". He said he would be finishing work in the next 10 minutes. I sent my location pin. Almost an hour passed and I asked if he would still be coming. He replied he had a sudden meeting to attend to.
I told him to stop playing games with my business and told him he was added to my W&TW list and blocked his number.
Firstly why message a MG if you're not looking for a massage and secondly we were not born yesterday and are fully aware that not all "sudden meetings" actually exist.
Please please PLEASE respect our business and time.
Have a blessed day
Xxx