I need to share this story and hope that Ms. Paige won't be angry or disappointed in me , but there is a story to tell and I really need to say what I need to say. I might be a new member to the forum but not in this industry and as a punter.

I had a 10:00 booking with her this morning and as I switched on my punting phone I got a message from her. She apologized and cancelled the booking and told me that her beloved oom Piet (her closest friend of many years) died in the early morning due to cancer. And then I suddenly remember how this oom Piet always fought for her on the forum.

I called her and asked if she will allow me to buy her flowers and deliver it. I just had to do something. I could hear that she was crying and in a very bad space. If she said no I would have accept it but after a few seconds of silence she asked me if I would mind just holding her for a view minutes. Just hold her without wanting anything from her. I felt so bad. When I got to her house I could see the tears and she felt bad showing her emotions. When I hold her she was crying for at least 10 minutes without stopping. I was glad I could comfort her in her dark moments. She really just needed someone to tell her that everything will be okay.

On my way back home I could not help to wonder what these girls are going through on a daily basis. Who knows their pain and struggles? They always have to smile. They always have to look their best, even they feel like shit, hoping that someone will book them and then faking a session so that they won't get a bad review. If they don't work they can't pay their bills. What if they get sick or even abused? How many times do they wake up in the morning, and find themselves in a bad space and know they need to fake it?

They depend on us punters to help them cope financially and emotionally. I know their problems should not be our problems but have you ever thought about what's happening behind the curtain? How did they get here? What is the story behind the smile?

Before you give a lady a bad review, please think twice. Rather don't review her at all. I know a lot of ladies don't give a shit if you return or not, but that is their loss at the end of the day. I for one will only see ladies with good reviews and if it should happen that she had an off day, Ill ignore it and think twice before I act on the forum. They are special human beings who deserve gold medals. They have to stand in for what our wives and girlfriends gave up on. I so respect these ladies and I want to thank each and every one of you ladies for what you have to put up to make us happy.

Happy punter

Very well put! Yes, i think ladies go thru a lot!

Kudos to you AC62! Respect.
I agree with what you said, we are all human after all.

Ms Paige, no words on earth can heal loss. All of the best to you. May the fond memories you have of Oom Piet carry you through this time.

Well said, and well done for being there for her.

As you correctly stated, they are human, have feelings just like any of us. They also allowed to have "bad day" at he office. No sick leave or any of the benefits we do get from working a full day. A day not working is a day without any income.


Not sure of the exact words but there is a saying
"rather not say anything if you can't say anything good".

@ Miss Paige

My condolences with the lost of your friend. may his soul rest in peace.

I can't thank you enough for this beautiful gesture and kind words.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart for being there for Ms. Paige today...xxx

Well said sir very true words. They are all very special ladies that lift our moods and put a smile on our faces. I like you have the worlds respect for all the ladies. Thank you to all of you.

oh my word this is Lee from La femme I dont know if you've ever met me or me u but after reading this brought me to tears . I salute u my dear for taking time out to do this for us .U cannot imagine the shift in the realm u just caused and I can guarantee u made a . huge impact with one opening up and saying it as it is at that point in time . I take my hat off to u my love thank u so much for seeing deeper than what the normal eye can see and for making this lady feel like she was loved by just you holding her u a true man . I salute u. Lee

True gentleman. Really good of you for putting some one else before you. Shows good character. I wish I could be even 1 iota as good as that.

@AC62.... thank you :) it's all part of our work to always smile and be the positive influence in a session... nice to know that if and when we have a bad day it is ok ;)

Ac62, after reading your thread I had to completely redo my makeup.
This almost never seen on the forum and thank you for sharing.
I don't believe I have ever met peige but thank you for what you did for her and thank you for understanding that we ate also only human.

You sweetheart deserve a golden medal