Sometimes people break up in cruel and harsh manners ...sometimes they way the relationship ends does not warrant the actions of how someone chooses to break up with the other ....something I have experienced

How do people get closure in such instances especially if the other party does not want to see you or talk to you ?

its hard I recently got out of a divorce. but I had alot of friends and family that supported me along with my La Femme family.

I think you just need too be in the right situation at the right time..
even when its hard.

keep your head up!
look around you becoz there is love All around if we only open our eyes and allow ourselfs to experience and see it...

xxx

Time heals.you will talk later but not now.

yolan, sometimes you never get closure. Not trying to make you negative but it happened to me. Had the most amazing life and fianc and with no warning signs or anything she dissapeared.
Since then I have not felt love again. It has been almost 5 years. I have only recently started opening up again. The memory and hurt still hunts me, but I it is getting better now. I have met some amazing ladies on esa that gave me hope again...not as a replacement lover but as a lady friend.And they have certainly assisted in a BIG way. Not just sexualy but emotionaly and supported me over the last couple years. I had a different profile before this one. Chasidy, Meg,Gabby, Minette, Cece, Mandy and other ladies really carried me through this emotionally without them even realising how they helped me.
Good luck and be strong.

Yolan

Sweetheart I am sorry to hear about your brakeup
The hardest thing to do is to forgive someone who is not sorry or doesn't take responsibility for their mistakes
It is also difficult to forgive yourself if you are unable to apologise and express your regret to that particular person.

Remember you can only control yourself and not anything around you,
Often the best you can do is to deliberately focus your attention to yourself and the things within yourself you are capable of changing,
Eg what happened and what was the things you did wrong rather that what dit the ex partner did wrong or right
What did you do well
How can u improve your flaws
What can u do to change it
How can you improve your own qualities

Set up a routine and work plan to start implementing the product you put together for your own development

And sweety you are still a great person and the ex partner is still a great person,
Personality expectations just did not work out and both of you just discovered room for emprovement

And no matter how many break ups you go through its kak every time single time

We have all been through the hurt and the pain. I feel for you Yolan.

Hopefully you are surrounded by positive friends and family.

You will have a chance one day.

Look after yourself.

Kisses

That's hetic stuff .... how people bring themselves to hurt others in that way is beyond me

On the flipside I suppose many married punters don't think of the hurt that they will unleash if their wives find out they are paying for sex behind their backs.

And some married punters do it with the consent of their partners.

Any break-up comes with the potential that some one may be hurt in the process, not just that of married people.