This topic has been here before. U call some girls and they promise u all sorts of things on the phone. Kissing, cuddling etc and when u rock up, it's de complete opposite. I do understand that girls make choices based on personal hygiene and the chemistry which is fair but rather they be upfront on de phone and state their T's and C's. Credit must be given to those girls who state their terms in advance.Over time i have noticed that established girls tend to be clear on their offerings whereas the newcomers tend to be desperate for a quick buck and mess u up.

I think things like kissing and cuddling will always have to be seen as a "bonus" when you see a spesific lady for the first time (probably very dependent on how you treat the lady and things like personal hygiene). Once you've been with her and you know each other a bit better you will know what you can expect with a 2nd visit to her.