Posted: 2017-12-16 05:25:47
Edited: 2017-12-16 05:44:21
I cant see the review. I click on it on your profile and nothing. All I saw was your response to him.
Anyway, Sugar, you have other reviews that contradict any one bad review. I know it's never that simple. It makes you feel violated not only emotionally, but physically and it's a horrible feeling knowing that the slime touched your body and was even in your personal space.
That being said, try and focus on your positive reviews and the clients that appreciate you and what you offer. It's unfortunately the kind of shit we face in this industry especially with social media etc progressing to scary degrees where the pimples on our asses aren't even a secret and bullies like him can slander a woman behind his keyboard and anonymity.
We put ourselves out there, so it is to be expected, but never accepted!
If you really do have an issue with getting business on esa because of it now, give me a call or WhatsApp me and I might be able to advise on the next best thing. I doubt it though, but there are other avenues available to you.
Keep your head held high and remember that this too shall pass and above all, do not allow desperation to overwhelm your gut instinct. The worst things in my life happened because I doubted my instincts and today if it feels wrong, I won't do it. I know desperation makes us do it at times, but try your best to stand tall and refuse it. Other clients will come, Money can be made in the days to come but your dignity and sense of self is fragile. Maintain it at all costs because it is hard to repair and nothing is worth breaking your own spirit with the regret of choosing money over not having trusted yourself.
All the best, V.